SinkTwiceMD (*giggles*)
OK, so I'm kind of involved with this guy. Basically we have talked about what we want out of a relationship and it's the same thing. The only problem is I want it right now, he does not, he wants it six months to a year from now. Because that's when he says he is able to. (see Understanding Male ISTJ Minds OP) So my options are to wait (because I think it will be worth it. And what's 6 months anyway?), which is what I feel inclined to do. Or to move on, which is what I think I should do(because I don't want to resent him for something he TOLD me flat out.) But the latter seems selfish, or like I'd be making a reactive descision. Am I thinking this because he can't give me what I want right now? Is it pride (because I don't want to seem like I'm hanging around)? However, I also want to be fair to myself.
So that's my jumbled up thought process. Wait or go, and how do I decide? Bottom line, I don't want to leave, I might be passing on an awesome thing. *shrugs*
So, with regards to the original question, Im not sure how to decipher what is the *right* thing to do in a situation like this. I'm probably making something huge out of it...