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I know quite a few women who resort to fake crying to avoid consequences or to get their own way. (I stopped counting at 6.) I've seen them do it so many times and then when they get their way the sun comes out again. Bleh.
It's usually directed at their partners/families/friends but one of these women had some trouble getting some permissions for her business and told her business partner not to worry as she would go to the local authority and cry to make things happen.
My god. What is wrong with these people? I guess in my mind overwhelming emotions-sad, happy, confused or whatever it is that precipitates the crying- are a sign to step away and give someone else space or support. It's kind of the last sign. So to use that to your advantage seems very-well, manipulative and sort of evil. I did work with one lady who did this. An esfj. I have her job now, if thats anything for how useful it was.
I guess I very rarely ever cry. Once a year until very recently. Maybe three times in the last last six months.