The thing about this is that you could be any of these types from one time to another, Horney at least talked about basic anxiety and neurotic trends as opposed to a sort of fixed neurosis or neuroticism and her work was a further departure from a sort of neurological scientism but I still think its got its flaws.
Also, apart from the fact that you could behave as one type from one time to another your own perceptions could be wildly off from that of others, or they same others could be lying for one reason or another from one time to another, so while I'd consider myself compliant or withdrawing, at least when I'm especially stressed, I know others who'd class me as aggressive, all the time, stress or no stress.
To be honest for about the last year or two I've found that I might feel and think as the aggressive type myself but behave as the other two because I struggle to see the point as most victories are Pyrrhic victories, a lot of the time all part of someone else's game, which you'd definitely not elect to be part of by choice.
Which is part of the reason why I dream of being independently wealthy or some other configuration coming about in my life which would truly put it within my gift to either voluntarily associate or more importantly disassociate from others.