Rachelinpa
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- Aug 4, 2008
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- ENFP
You are the only one stressing/agonizing, don't you see that? NFs, why are you always obsessing over this stuff? And why do you ask questions when you don't really want the answers? I don't know how many posts I've read along similar lines. If you are the kind of person who needs a lot of reassurance and stability and emotional support, you shouldn't be in a relationship with an ITP. You won't get what you need and you'll annoy the hell out of them.
um, wrong. that was my female istp friend who was obsessing over the text. not me. although, i am prone to obsession. generally, i try not to take myself to seriously... ha. at any rate, i think you can be "the kind of person who needs a lot of reassurance and stability and emotional support" (i.e. an NF) and be in a successful relationship with an ITP. that's not to say there wouldn't be any issues, but it depends on how much of a priority that need is and where else you can gain that emotional support (from yourself or others).