That makes sense to me . . . very loose sense. Now it feels like the Archetype Model is being used almost like magical thinking. When the evidence supports it, it corroborates the theory, and when the evidence does not, it gets ignored or explained away. I'm not trying to be argumentative here--I say this in friendly tones--but it feels like the Archetype Model was used to sweep the original issue (atypical function-use) under the rug, and now that I'm seeing problems with the archetypes, the issues are getting swept even further under the rug.
That kind of thing is one of the areas where I get frustrated with Ti. To me, it comes off as rather passive, like someone backing themselves into one corner after another instead of confronting the issue.
Well, I think I've been providing the reasons why the evidence might not seem to support it in cases like yours. Like the unpreferred function being developed, or just plain "undifferentiated". I don't see how that's explaining it away. It's using the theory in a way that provides room for the anomalies like that. (I have seen people who make rigid rules out of it, and take one function they see you use, and force your whole type into a
preference of it and bend everything else to fit. This sort of thinking even appeared earlier on in the "Mistyped Members" thread, and I've been specifically trying to counter or provide an alternative for it).
In reality, a type is determined by a dominant function & orientation, and an auxiliary. The rest of cognitive analysis is a guide as to how the remaining processes might play out. There really should be no hard rule about "strengths", and even with the archetypes, for every negative there is a positive side (and vice versa).
I'm 22, and I'm positive I'm not an ISFP. I've always been spacey and out-of-this-world, and I take no pleasure in most Se activities.
What do you mean by "Se activities"?
Se is just a form of perception, that might lead one to certain kinds of activities, but then other factors (including the other function or orientation preferences) might modify that. So Se ends up being stereotyped, and I have seen ISFP's react to this, and think they might be more NF'ish because of it.
The typical Se/SP charateristics you are probably thinking of ("fast paced adventurer") would be more fitting for ESxP's. Because ISFP is an introvert, it will be less like that, and the Fi dominance will further mellow it.
All that type means is that this is a person driven by internal values, and supported by perception of current concrete reality, and that's what what you've been saying sounds like.
The one thing I really like to do with that process is experience sensory art like paintings and music. These things almost leave their sensory aspect behind, though, for the moment I immerse myself in them, I'm transported into a world of speculations and imaginings.
ISFP's are very artistic, and then from there, they will delve into Ni, which sounds exactly like what you're describing.
Any given process will bother me sometimes, depending on how it's used. This includes Se, which leads to a lifestyle of sensory pleasure and physical thrills that I don't personally go for.
I guess this answers my question, above, and it is exactly what at least one ISFP I ran across complained about. But again, that is partly an Se stereotype, and then inasmuch as there is a grain of truth in it, the ISFP will be less like that because of the dominant introverted Feeling.
It's as I've been saying recently, regarding "acceptance/rejection". The function stacking order is based on accepting one thing and initially rejecting everything else (from the
consciousness, that is; doesn't mean you never engage them), but then later accepting them, which we would call "developing" the functions.
For an ISFP, the main ego's acheiver is ethical judgments in the inner world of thoughts and emotions. Perception from the outer world initially
interferes with this by trying to pull them out of their inner world, for one thing, but in childhood will soon come to be accepted as a supporting guide. At the same time, internal abstract perception (imagination, etc) will also soon develop as a counterbalance, to maintain the inner focus.
The typical Se stereotypes are based on those for whom that is their main ago achiever: sensory perception from the external world of people and action. So yes, that will be at odds with your ego's preference at times.
I probably didn't make myself very clear. When I called Se my starting point and bottom line, I meant that in an epistemological sense. In other words, truth for me begins with objective reality, exactly as it appears and as free of interpretations as possible. You'll find this same viewpoint expressed in the philosophical movement called Phenomenology . . . which I have a feeling was not founded by Sensors.
That still sounds like Se preference; even more clearly articulated. It's what truth for you
begins with. That's the language of preference. Then, as it filters through consciousness, it encounters the other functions, such as intuition, and "strength" has less to do with it.
Yes!

I barely relate to the profile at all, and I may as well be blind for all the Se I use.
Sometimes even profiles are loaded with stereotypes, and often based on part of the preference. Like people have had big problems with the way Keirsey supposedly colored all SP's a certain way (IIRC) based largely on one of its "variants" (i.e. types), and I believe ISFP is one of those people had problems with. (So again, it takes on more ESxP characteristics than it should have). And then, this spreads into main "MBTI" type profiles as people unofficially adopt the temperament groupings.
So what exactly about the "ISFP profile" do you not relate to? Because cognitively, you sounds just like it. (And this is the reason it is good to break things down Ti-style to their basic components and put them back together. Becaus a lot of stuff gets added to "holistic" perspectives that probably shouldn't be there.
Also, how can you say truth begins for you with Se, but then claim to be bad at "using it"? (I've also been trying to get away from the term "
using" functions, as that I found from my discussion with Lenore Thomson is part of what makes this stuff confusing. However, it is engrained, and I did not catch what a better term would be).
The thing is, I get along really well with stable, mature INTPs. I have a couple of them on my friends list, and my best friend is an ENTP, which is a similar type.
I think most of the people I had problems with were in fact ISTPs. ISTP is a type I've always had trouble getting on with, and I saw a lot of that in the people who I had the real tension with.
That's exactly what Technical (JF) was always saying, that I believe was part of what got him into trouble. That there were all of these ISTP's over there posing as INTP's. I never did get what the basis of that was.
My point is more that I saw a sharp difference between my thinking style and that of INTPs. We process things in a different way, and that tells me we belong to different types.
Well, do you find yourself processing perception the same way as them? Because INFP's will be on the same wavelength as INTP's there. I experienced this myself, but then it was on judgment we clashed, and it took a long time for me to learn why one seemed sympatico with me to some extent, but then would suddenly get tired of the logical analysis and demand more personal stuff.
If you don't sync with them in perception, then that would suggest you are different in that area as well.