Eric B said:
A process is not really wedded to a complex, so it's not a matter of "defying".
The archetypes also have positive sides, and maybe your Ti is developed enough that you can experience it that way, but since you speak of having to chain it down, then it does sound like it is not really favored by the ego.
That makes sense to me . . . very
loose sense. Now it feels like the Archetype Model is being used almost like magical thinking. When the evidence supports it, it corroborates the theory, and when the evidence does not, it gets ignored or explained away. I'm not trying to be argumentative here--I say this in friendly tones--but it feels like the Archetype Model was used to sweep the original issue (atypical function-use) under the rug, and now that I'm seeing problems with the archetypes, the issues are getting swept even further under the rug.
That kind of thing is one of the areas where I get frustrated with Ti. To me, it comes off as rather passive, like someone backing themselves into one corner after another instead of confronting the issue.
Eric B said:
No, I just remember that you did use to wear INTP over there, but then changed over. And NFP always did seem more likely, but you felt you had strong enough Ti and weren't sure back then whoch was really preferred.
It wasn't so much that I couldn't decide as it was that I felt balanced. I still do, and hopefully I am.
Eric B said:
If you're younger than your 20's, it might not have developed yet, and would probably be that way like any other unconscious function. Or, did you once inquire about ISFP?
I'm 22, and I'm positive I'm not an ISFP. I've always been spacey and out-of-this-world, and I take no pleasure in most Se activities. The one thing I really like to do with that process is experience sensory art like paintings and music. These things almost leave their sensory aspect behind, though, for the moment I immerse myself in them, I'm transported into a world of speculations and imaginings.
Eric B said:
Now this sounds more like ISFP, as they will have Se as aux and Ni as tertiary. An INFP wouldn't likely being bothered by others not using those, and would more likely be bothered by others using them instead, since they are his shadows.
Any given process will bother me sometimes, depending on how it's used. This includes Se, which leads to a lifestyle of sensory pleasure and physical thrills that I don't personally go for.
Eric B said:
Now this definitely sounds like Se preference (and the "moving to drawing connections" would be moving to tertary Ni working with the Se).
I probably didn't make myself very clear. When I called Se my starting point and bottom line, I meant that in an epistemological sense. In other words, truth for me begins with objective reality, exactly as it appears and as free of interpretations as possible. You'll find this same viewpoint expressed in the philosophical movement called Phenomenology . . . which I have a feeling was not founded by Sensors.
Eric B said:
Sure you're not really an ISFP?
Yes!

I barely relate to the profile at all, and I may as well be blind for all the Se I use.
Eric B said:
Maybe that's why you had such trouble on INTPc? ISFP and INTP are all eight processes in the reverse order; the most drastically opposite type cognitively; though the Interaction Style and sociablity temperament {IP} are the same!
The thing is, I get along really well with stable, mature INTPs. I have a couple of them on my friends list, and my best friend is an ENTP, which is a similar type.
I think most of the people I had problems with were in fact ISTPs. ISTP is a type I've always had trouble getting on with, and I saw a lot of that in the people who I had the real tension with. My point is more that I saw a sharp difference between my thinking style and that of INTPs. We process things in a different way, and that tells me we belong to different types.