Cellmold
Wake, See, Sing, Dance
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Is this announcing a plan to commit a crime that will land you in prison?
Or to become Mr Burns.
Is this announcing a plan to commit a crime that will land you in prison?
I don't have a job yet (since I only just graduated from high school) but I'm majoring in chemical engineering since it makes a lot of money and I'd probably be good at it.
What I really want to do is be an author (and in addition to writing books, also write movies, tv shows, and video games), but since I can't guarantee I'd be successful at that, I plan on getting a job that pays well and then write books in my spare time. If they sell well, I'll write for a living.
There are too many things I want to do (what I mentioned there is only a small fraction of what I wish I could do with my life)...
I'm a manager in an educational institute. I've risen quite quickly since I decided to get into management. One of the lecturers referred to me as a high flyer, which I'm certainly not, however I suppose I must have been effective and that must have been noticed.
Whilst I enjoy most of the aspects of management, I really struggle with having to deal with people. I can do it reasonably well but it uses up a lot of my energy and I really have to bite my tongue.
I'm wondering whether I need to change my career as I find the political correctness rather stifling and to be honest I don't have much faith in the public education system. The trouble is I'm not sure what I should be doing instead or whether I'm capable of doing anything else. I suppose I'm just too comfortable where I am, and I know that further progression is almost a certainty. I seem to remember a quote about INTJs and working in education and that it was a delusion, a waste of time. I want to be working in the real world to feel valid.
We can swap jobs if you want a sort of...freaky friday of careers. I'll be the educational manager, (haha lets see how long it takes for that to fall to pieces), and you can be the argos stockroom lackey and minor assistant to an accountant of a private owned business.
I have two jobs, see? But they are both infinitely more inferior in status, and I would hazard wage, to yours. But I take what I can get and honestly it's fascinating that I have got this far.
Te as a function is something I envy somewhat, it appears to lend itself to the world of doing, leading and efficiency, all things I struggle with personally, although I am not trying to idealise it and pretend that having that function in a strong position automatically lends itself to success in those areas, but I am saying it might help a bit.
I was most stressed when I did the customer-service jobs. This was due to their routine nature, the feeling of not being full-filled and having to deal with the general public in service situations. Now I have good stress ... but I seem to always want more. I don't think I'm a particularly amibitious person. It's not about money or status, but of having a feeling of being useful and self-actualization.
I can relate. I'm pretty much in that position now and I really don't like it. I was recently given a mild telling off because those few rare times I do have to deal with customers I apparently don't smile enough.
Mindless routine is just.....the pits.
Smiling at customers was an anathema to me![]()
insecure. Maybe they don't match up to the 'legend' lol