Interviews by ENFP

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Riley about what it's like to be a double feminine INTJ Ni-Fi SB/P(C) FF. We started the conversation talking about his sexual modalities and Riley talked about wanting to come across as feminine as possible. He also discussed his sexuality being bi-sexual and liking people in general regardless of gender. We then talked about his double masculine NF sleep and he talked about his code. His code was centred around being balance with self and others. Next, we talked about his double feminine ST play and he said he primarily uses his play to gather information from people or to goof around with others because he's not going to do the researching himself. We then talked about his double activated NT blast and Riley talked about not wanting to stop problem solving for other people. He said it gets really bad because he can come across as cringy with his solutions. The last part of our conversation was centred around his SF consume. Riley said that he feels bad using his consume because it feels selfish. He also said he doesn't know how he comes across to the tribe because of the lack of external self awareness. We also discussed Riley being energy dominant and the lack of consume is messing up conversations. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I talked to Nikolina about what it's like to be an ENTJ jumper Te-Se PB/S(C) MM. During our talk, Nikolina spoke about being a lead gatherer ENTJ with consume last. She said she would gather things but wouldn't consume anything and they would pile up and she wouldn't know what to do with them. As an ExxJ type, Nikolina talked about having people problems and needing permission from the tribe to express herself. She said if she is familiar with you, then she is an aggressive super extroverted person. But if she is not familiar with you, she has a tendency to be quieter but would still enjoy the vibe of the tribe. She talked about being a doer and only recently learned that feelings matter and sometimes, that needs to be addressed as opposed to what needs to be done. Nikolina also talked about being energy dominant and that it's easier to share energy and goof off than exchange information. Despite being double masculine outwardly, she is double feminine inwardly and talked about music and socks that let her express her double feminine side. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Chris about what it's like to be the most introverted ESTP type which is Se-Ti CS/B(P) MM. During our conversation, we talked about his type actually leading with his double feminine Ni and Ti first instead of his double masculine Se and Fe. He said this helps him in his business because he doesn't come across as aggressive since he is leading with his double feminine animals. Chris also talked about his obsession with work and being drained by people and relying on caffeine to get him through human interactions. Chris said he works 7 days a week but feels like he is compensating for something by burying himself in work. He said that he wants to earn money but it could possibly be that he is avoiding interacting with the tribe. Chris did talk about dating and seems interested in both the idea of dating around but also starting a family. This interview was very engaging since we're both info-dominant with double activated double feminine NT. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got to talk to Nicole about what it's like to be an ISFJ jumper Si-Ti SB/P(C) FF. During our talk, Nicole spoke about preferring to do the work herself rather than working with the tribe. She also discussed being a visual and how she used to do 3D modeling for video games creating the environment. Because she is NT consume last, Nicole shared a story of being called out for liking to work on video games but not actually liking to play video games. Nowadays, she's forcing herself to consume by playing NT puzzle-like games (she's playing a Kirby game right now). Nicole also shared having an existential crisis and when not using her NF play, she starts to wonder what the point of life is. Her double feminine double activated SF blast is used to play the therapist role with her co-workers as she guides them towards the appropriate emotion for their problems. She also works a lot and likes to produce results. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got to talk to Mina about what it's like to be an ENFP jumper Ne-Te PC/S(B) FF. The first thing that stood out about Mina is her energy-dom-ness. She likes to pump the conversation with energy, make it fun, and not so serious focusing on the information. This is a double edge sword because Mina is blast last and she has trouble concluding and her channel changing between topics is very aggressive as a result of her masculine Ne. When talking about her double masculine NF consume, Mina said that when watching movies, she is always looking for the hidden meaning behind each film. Mina also talked about her SF with being a visual and presenting herself in a certain manner because the visuals are important. For the emotional side of SF sleep, Mina said that she has a tendency to talk to herself which is using play on herself. When she figured out she was doing that, she ended up seeing a therapist to finally flush out her feelings inside of her. Mina also discussed her struggles with double feminine ST blast and getting weird looks when she's talking at times because the other person is confused at what she's saying. Overall, Mina said she was quick to accept her type when she got it back after being typed officially because she had already seen all her function stack before when she originally thought she was an INFP. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Michaela about what it's like to be a rare ESFP type, Se-Fi CP/B(S) FM. There are not many standard ESFP with a visual sexual modality (most of them are the jumper variants) so it was good to hear from Michaela's point of view on what her type is like. We used a lot of Enneagram comparisons because Michaela is newly typed by Objective Personality and is not as versed in it. Yet, so we used her personal experience, Objective Personality, and Enneagram to discuss her specific type. We discussed her NF sleep last and since Enneagram type 3's suppress their emotions, I asked Michaela if her being NF sleep last means she is suppressing her deep emotions on purpose or if she is doing it subconsciously. Michaela said it's probably a mix because when she starts experiencing deep emotions that are painful, she starts thinking of ways to fix them instead of feeling them deeply. She also talked about being very competitive and thinking the tribe is a threat. Michaela mentioned that if she lets the tribe tell her what to do then she will lose control. She said it almost feels like death. We also talked about her double masculine NT blast and she said she feels confident to give people solutions to problems but only if the information is accurate. This is a direct reflection of Michaela being info-dominant and obsessed with information accuracy. In the last part of our discussion, Michaela said that as a visual, her memory is tied to room layout and what she's seen before. She's also a tester and loves different scents. Michaela said she usually gets perfume as a present for Christmas or Birthdays and when she travels, she likes buying perfumes because it reminds her of her experience in that destination. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got to talk to Monica about what it's like to be a jumper ISTJ Si-Fi SC/P(B) FF. During our conversation, Monica talked about her sexual modalities and not being terribly picky with smells but having a good visual memory. She also talked about her fear of chaos and because it's coming from the Extroverted Intuition, the fear is more imaginative than real. SInce Monica is lead sleep, a lot of her fears come from driving a car. She shared a story of having a panic attack while driving because she feels like she will lose control of the wheel. Monica also shared that there are times in the evening when driving home from work that she would blank out and have no idea how she got home in the first place. However, when Monica drives during the day, she said she is fine because she's often times angry at other drivers for being too slow or being in her way as she's rushing to get to work. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got to talk to Jennifer about what it's like to be a jumper ESFP Se-Te PC/S(B) FF. Jennifer is a mildly introverted ESFP who leads with her play animal so she does like spending time with the tribe but she is also aware of when it's time to rest and hang out by herself. During the interview, Jennifer demonstrated her ST play quite a bit as she gave tons of sensory reports about her life. She then balances it out by talking about her double masculine NF sleep where she shared the values and code that she adheres to. Jennifer also talked about her SF consume and working on building that external self-awareness. The last part of the conversation was talking about her NT blast last. She said she uses her other animals to compensate for the challenge of having NT last. However, when she was in school, she did have to do organized presentations so she had a chance to use her NT blast. The exception; though, is that during those presentations, she will use a lot of play because blasting is still hard for her. We ended the interview by talking about her sexual modalities which are tester and visual. Jennifer talked about loving food and liking to try different dishes. For some reason; though, Jennifer said her audio is actually better than her visuals. This is strange because she is tester visual but her stronger modalities are actually tester and audio. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Jason about what it's like to be an ESTJ Te-Si BP/S(C) MF. The first thing you'll notice about Jason is he can't stop doing the Si+Te teaching to the tribe. He caught himself several times going overboard with giving you the ST report. Jason also uses play a lot as you can see during the interview as going back and forth is something he doesn't have trouble with. His double masculine Si + Fi sleep third is also pretty good as he is keenly aware of his values, negative emotions. The part of sleep he has trouble with is prioritizing as well as having a health routine. The animal he has the most trouble with is his NF (Ne+Fi) consume last. He said he never sees himself and lacks that external self-awareness. Jason said he's also unaware of the vibe of the tribe as a result. When it comes to learning, he does think learning through audio is a bit slow but he's quite good with kinesthetics learning. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Amanda about what it's like to be an ENTJ Te-Ni BS/P(C) MM. During our interview, Amanda talked about teaching her known information to the tribe as concisely as possible because she is Blast-Sleep as opposed to Blast-Play. Her information is very processed and concise so there's no need to elaborate. Amanda also talked about her double feminine NF sleep and how her identity shifts but she tries her best to adhere to her core value of having integrity and honesty. Amanda talked about her double masculine ST play and because it's in a demon state, she will help the tribe but only if they really need help. Having sleep above play allows Amanda to be more selfish and say no to the tribe if it doesn't make sense for her to help them. Having consume last, Amanda's biggest issue is not knowing how she comes across because she is not able to see herself from a third person perspective. We also discussed her sexual modalities and apparently, when she tries, she can pick up Kinaesthetic activities quite easily. Amanda also plays the violin which is her outlet for her audio sexual modality. She said she got into playing the violin after watching a Celine Dion concert when she was 6 years old and thinking how cool the violin player was during the show. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Anna about what it's like to be an ESTJ Te-Si BS/C(P) FM. Anna is technically the most introverted type of ESTJ as she lives in her Si and Fi (SF sleep) world all the time. Because her SF sleep is double feminine, she is easily influenced by the tribe values which she takes on to herself. Anna's emotions is also easily swayed by movies, books, or anything she consumes. On the flip side, because her SF sleep is double activated, Anna loves talking about herself despite being an ExxJ type. She's also very much in touch with her visual sexual modality and aesthetics is very personal to her. She does use her ST blast at work but she feels like her SF sleep is more prominent of the two saviour animals. Her NF consume is used for following her heart at making her career decision and working for a company that has certain values that she resonates with. Finally, her NT double masculine play gets very aggressive when it does come out so when she plays with the tribe, she can go for many days without rest. Watch this interview here:

 

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In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Jason about what it's like to be an INTP Ti-Ne CS/P(B) FF. During our interview, Jason shared his Ti and Fe axis and said he feels embarrassed to say that when he does think of building or creating something, the end result he imagines is the tribe clapping at him and giving him recognition. Jason also talked about his NT consume and how he likes to consume a wide variety of different topics. He also uses the NT consume to gather solutions to problems he's trying to solve. Jason talked about his ST sleep being personal and he feels competitive because of his Ti but also feels insecure at the same time at the possibility of being incompetent. He then talked about his NF play and said he enjoys engaging with the tribe. His SF blast is his most difficult animal because knowing the proper social etiquette is a challenge to him and he prefers it if someone were to tell him what's expected so he can adhere to it without causing awkwardness. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Aiste about her re-typing process. I've interviewed her in the past, but she recently changed her type slightly. She's still an ISTJ but the most introverted tribe above self version of her previous typing. We talked about her double feminine Si and Fi sleep and how she always forgets what she's already processed inside. Her double masculine Ne and Te play is very confident with problem-solving but because it's her 4th animal, she only uses it with her husband. She's balanced with her Si and Te blast and Ne and Fi consume as a result of being info dominant. Aiste then shared how she sees her masculine Ne at the bottom when making a decision about where her and her husband would live country-wise in the future. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Maartje about what it's like to be an ENTJ Te-Ni BS/P(C) FM. During the interview, Maartje mentions that she believes her Play animal and Consume animal are not accurate and she is actually Play last. As we talked during the interview, it did seem she is more play last than consume last. We started our conversation discussing her NT blast and how she is good at problem solving and it's her preferred method when working with tribe members. We then discussed her NF sleep next and Maartje uses Star Trek analogies to describe her values and exploration is something she values greatly. We then talked about her ST play and she can do some of it as long as it's contained and rules are applied to it. SF consume is the next topic we covered and she discussed learning external self-awareness as she got older and also loving to consume popular and cool type of materials. When we discussed her sexual modalities, she mentioned that she is the worst visual ever because she has trouble picturing things. She did mention that her sense of smell from her tester modality is quite strong and she's glad that covid caused her to lose 20% of those senses because it's way too much. Finally, we touched on her Fi and she said that when she was younger, she really struggled with self-loathing but it's something she's been actively working on during her entire life. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this explainer video, I analyze the INFPs biggest problem with the help of John, an officially typed INFP. John shared with me his struggles as an INFP and I did a breakdown using his demon functions and animals. After analyzing the four quadrants of his demon ST blast and SF sleep, I was surprised to find out that his 4th animal is NOT his biggest problem but actually his 3rd animal. However, his 4th function is still his biggest problem since Extroverted Thinking is the triggering function for INFP types. I was able to do a deep dive into his two demons and pin point which specific aspect is his actual problem. That way, John and his fellow INFPs can understand the root cause of their issues and work towards a practical solution to their problems. Watch this explainer here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I talked to Kurt about what it's like to be an ENFJ jumper Fe-Se PC/S(B) FF. During the interview, Kurt shared how he uses his SF play to go along with the tribe with the primary goal being to avoid wrecking the vibe. Kurt then talked about his ST consume and how he uses it to find how-to methods to feed his NT sleep. Kurt then talked about his personal his NT sleep is, especially since it's double masculine, and how figuring things out is very personal to him. We then discussed his NF blast last and his struggles with the lack of using it and how more practice is needed for him to hone it better. We then discussed the silent contract that Fe and Ti users do when doing Fe nice things for others with ulterior motives behind the scenes and how he avoids asking for help to avoid being indebted to someone else. The last topic we covered is the energy and info-dom difference and how being more info-dom could enhance his life. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got to talk to Keagan about what it's like to be an ESTP jumper Se-Fe PC/S(B) FF. During the first part of the interview, Keagan talked about discovering using her Ti and Fe and knowing what is required for the moment. When she was younger, she talked about being very sensitive and pushing emotions away and later realized it made her feel robotic and numb, so she started to accept the full range of emotions. This resulted in her feeling more complete as a human and being to connect with others easier. Keagan also talked about her Ti and not wanting to be wrong when she was younger. However, she learned that accepting that you're wrong actually brings you closer to the truth and eventually being right and has since incorporated acceptance of being wrong in her life which has speed up her personal growth. Keagan is an expert channel changer which is very ExxP and she's also an energy dom and exchanging energy is an important priority for her. Watch this interview here:

 

[ENFPMale]

Hello everyone! In this interview, I got to talk to Thomas about what it's like to be an ESFP jumper Se-Te PB/C(S) MF. We started the interview by talking about his double-activated ST play, double feminine NT blast, and double masculine SF consume. Afterward, we got to the good stuff which is talking about his Ni and NF sleep last. Thomas was very candid about his life situation which I really appreciated as he discussed his struggles with Ni at the bottom and his NF sleep last. Thomas used the word fear to describe what is preventing him from moving forward toward a future that would make him happier. I'm hoping that Thomas gets to a point in his life where he's had enough and punches fear in the face and finally gets what he wants because he's a good guy with endless potential. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Alex about what it's like to be an ESFP Se-Fi CP/S(B) MF. During the interview, Alex talked about being A-sexual and not feeling sexual attraction like normal people do. He also talked about being double masculine double activated SF consume and how he's great at research and learning and can also come aggressive on the front end because of it. However, once people get to know Alex, he's super goofy as hell and it's because he's also an energy-dominant person. Alex also shared his ST play, NF sleep, and negative self-talk and beliefs, and NT blast last. We ended the conversation talking about him being a #4 in the social spectrum and his ExxP don't control me bro when it comes to people with ego problems trying to control him. Watch this interview here:

 

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Hello everyone! In this interview, I got a chance to talk to Mathias about what it's like to be an ENFP Ne-Fi CS/P(B) MF. During the interview, Mathias shared with me about what's happening with him when he uses his double-activated NF consume, his double masculine SF sleep, his double feminine NT play, and ST blast last. His consume and sleep go hand in hand because if he's not resting then he's consuming information or video games. His SF sleep and NT play are also pretty balanced when he spends time by himself to recharge his energy and when he goes to the tribe and goes into extrovert mode. The area he has the most trouble with is his ST blast. He talked about not even thinking about taxes and how the government will get him in the future if he doesn't take care of the tax part of his life. He also explained how he's audio and how he learns best from listening. He said his kinesthetic side is fairly unprocessed at the moment. We ended the conversation comparing each other as he is the super introverted ENFP and I'm the super extroverted ENFP. Watch this interview here: