Lightyear
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I don't hate INFJ's, but INFJ's seem to be the most negative thinkers and the biggest whiners and complainers of all the personality types. They'll complain loudly and regularly about how things aren't going well for them. They talk about how the things they're trying are not working out for them, BUT they absolutely refuse to change. They'll keep doing exactly the same things that that don't work and they'll keep making the same complaints pretty much forever. They don't take personal responsibility for solving their problems. They'd rather blame other people and external circumstances for everything. They didn't listen to me when I tried to give them advice on other forums (long before I found this forum). All these things that INFJ's do are the opposite of what the success gurus recommend.
Honestly that is so not true for me. I hate whiners and want to kick them in the butt and tell them to move instead of spending all their time complaining about nothing.
You must have come across some pretty unhealthy INFJs (also I think that INFJs who are Enneagramm 4s would be much more likely to whine than for example a 9 or a 5)