Such fascinating sarcasm, but really I must comment (taking things far too seriously, as a 4w5 would). In my experience, 3w4 doesn't desire to stand out to be different, they like to stand above to be different.
Now to the OP, @<a href="http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/members/29947.html" target="_blank">Mechnick</a>: I've encountered so many freaking 3's in my life, vast majority of which need serious help. I've had to ride the rollercoaster of seeing through their "Really, I'm the best" masks (my Dad is a 3, so this started young), to see the true lack of identity and self worth beneath. The former has caused me to simply withhold approval in general, making myself (usually) the only person in the 3's life that won't pat their head for material wealth or "knowing" people. On the other hand, acknowledging their brokenness underneath has over time forced me to see the tortured children many of them were forced to be-- truly believing that their little lives had no value, and they would not earn love, unless they were to win at everything. That's tragic!
I met the healthiest 3 I ever have, in a prison. To some extent, finding value in failure is the key to a 3 truly being the best. Otherwise, they are just good liars, who first believed the lie that they cannot be loved without cultural approval.