Ideal types

[Secret Squirrel]

So I've read lots of things about Intjs and Enfps getting along. And, in my experience, it does seem to be true. But I'm just wondering, is this really a thing? And if it is, are there other pairs like this too, like maybe Infps and Entjs or something? (I've also heard about Infjs and Entps)

 

[Norrsken]

Is what really a thing? You mean compatibility? The INTJ and the ENFP shares crucial cognitive functions needed for them to communicate and understand one another as fluidly and as easily as possible.
The INFP's natural partner is the ENFJ rather than the ENTJ. This website will show you all the types natural partners and how they each behave in a romantic relationship.

 

[The Cat]

I'm suspicious about this too tbh...

 

[thepink-cloakedninja]

Personally, I kind of have a hard time seeing myself with an ENTJ ... I'd probably just be scared of one. But then, I've got a couple ESTJs as best friends and I do tend to bring their soft side out as well as get the Ne rolling so maybe I'd get on with their Te-dom cousins ...

I know an ENFP and INTJ couple who are just the cutest together but I think the INTJ is mistyped ...

 

[Secret Squirrel]

I'm suspicious about this too tbh...

Exactly, this is the reason why I am asking about this, I am just asking this based off of people's experiences. The only ones that I have actually seen a lot of in real life are the Intj/Enfp and Infj/Entp pairing. So that is why I am asking for other types.

 

[five sounds]

Nah

 

[1487610420]

Nah

 

[ceecee]

So I've read lots of things about Intjs and Enfps getting along. And, in my experience, it does seem to be true. But I'm just wondering, is this really a thing? And if it is, are there other pairs like this too, like maybe Infps and Entjs or something? (I've also heard about Infjs and Entps)

Two of my closest friends are ENFP's. I adore them. But I wouldn't last 5 minutes in a romantic relationship with either one.

 

[Peter Deadpan]

I don't think I'd be able to handle an ENTP long-term. I could totally be wrong, but I just.... I like smart, witty introverted men. I adore INTPs as friends and tend to be very attracted to them, but that inferior Fe would probably be the death of us tbh, unless he was older than me and thus had well developed Fe.

 

[The Cat]

I don't think I'd be able to handle an ENTP long-term. I could totally be wrong, but I just.... I like smart, witty introverted men. I adore INTPs as friends and tend to be very attracted to them, but that inferior Fe would probably be the death of us tbh, unless he was older than me and thus had well developed Fe.

What a bout I dunno an ESTP jc?

 

[Korvinagor]

There's certainly a few ideas floating around the 'ideal' pairings between types. Socionics is interesting in that it runs a little contrary to the MBTI ideals. For example, ILE/SEI (ENTP/ISFJ). Each pairing idea is reasonable in theory I suppose. At least, looking at how they're explained and justified.

 

[Yama]

where is my dream ESTP boy

 

[Julius_Van_Der_Beak]

where is my dream ESTP boy

I showed some pictures of some men you would like, but you disapproved of all of them.

 

[Yama]

I showed some pictures of some men you would like, but you disapproved of all of them.

*non-furry ESTP boy

 

[Korvinagor]

*non-furry ESTP boy

Fun on Discord I assume?

 

[geedoenfj]

I don't think the MBTI types that work out together is real thing..
I'm an ENFJ, and according to description I must get along with INFPs, not only there are few INFP men around, but most of them are a little weird
My INFJ sister deslikes most ENTPs that she's known..

I find myself most attracted to SPs and they're even more attracted to me.. Just like all types are hehehe

I was thinking that I would prefer an FJ guy because they would be more sensitive and understanding, and I really need to be understood, appreciated, and listened to.. But now I think I would judge on how it works with that particular person, based on enneagram maybe, there got to be no e1 or e8 in there, they usually make me anxious ..

 

[The Cat]

where is my dream ESTP boy

What do they look like?

 

[violet_crown]

Two of my closest friends are ENFP's. I adore them. But I wouldn't last 5 minutes in a romantic relationship with either one.

That's my feeling regarding romantic relationships with INFPs. There's a definite pull, friendships can be mutually beneficial, but dating would be setting both sides up for failure.

Most NTJ females I know end up with NJ males. INTPs seems to do well with us, too.

 

[Galaxy Gazer]

INTJ-ENFP and INFJ-ENTP are unusually good matches because they have opposite dominant functions, the same judging functions, and the same second letter. This means that they will look at the world in very similar ways, but will also be different enough to keep each other's interest. I don't think INFP has such a match. I don't think most types do.

 

[Secret Squirrel]

That's my feeling regarding romantic relationships with INFPs. There's a definite pull, friendships can be mutually beneficial, but dating would be setting both sides up for failure.

Most NTJ females I know end up with NJ males. INTPs seems to do well with us, too.

Maybe you guys are onto something here. I feel like friendships with them might be good but romantic relationships might not work. I actually could see myself getting annoyed if I was in a long-term romantic relationship with an ENFP.