There's somebody I know who is INFP 4w3, only different from me in the wing thing.
Because of his wing 3, there were times I couldn't tell if he was INFP or INFJ
He was more outspoken and seemed to be more outgoing than I am. He was definitely slightly grandiose and more melodramatic than me.
When I compare the 2 inn the case of INFP, I think:
- 4w3: grandiose, melodramatic, lots of swings between being extremely social / outgoing and being a complete hermit (physically and emotionally), more image-oriented and image-conscious (they do not fear to dress or have a specific haircut that shows their authentic personality), more likely to be in the graphic design / illustration / fashion design / acting fields, more prone to being vengeful and bitter, seem "arrogant" to people who don't understand that they can be brutally honest at times, more ambitious and discipline, strong desire to be recognised / remembered.
- 4w5: more analytical and investigative / stronger desire to understand why things are the way they are, more likely to feel rejected for being who they are, more likely to hide their hurts and true feeling, less outgoing, swings between keeping thoughts / feelings to themselves and unexpected outbursts, seems more forgiving (but wait, equally as bitter and never forget though!), more likely to be in psychology / therapy, counseling, research field, seem less action-oriented and more procrastinated, strong desire to understand / relate and to be understood.