i dont think he'd care if she did if he used her
key his car and smash the windshields
or post pictures of his small wee wee around the neighborhood along with his number
how to get back at ESTP?
What if you're used (relationship wise) by one...how would you get back at them? I guess they get bored easy and stop caring after a while...so this is probably going to be a tough one...
how to get back at ESTP?
What if you're used (relationship wise) by one...how would you get back at them? I guess they get bored easy and stop caring after a while...so this is probably going to be a tough one...
I agree with Synarch, but if you must consider revenge, consider the following.
ESTPs hate it when they don't get their way. Lead them on, then change your mind. Be sweet for a while and then for no reason reject the hell out of them. If you see them interacting with others and being the usual entertainer join the conversation, listen, yawn, and move on. Little shit like that will irritate them, but I don't know if you can ever get full on revenge. Dig 2 graves before setting out on such a quest, one for you, one for them. I hate to admit it but ESTPs are pretty damn good at making bad shit happen pretty quickly if they want to, so don't prod the fella' unecessarily. He can probably turn into a crafty manipulative bastard at the drop of a hat.
Just forget about him if he is trash. Karma will take care of his sorry as if he used you...
I agree with Synarch, but if you must consider revenge, consider the following.
ESTPs hate it when they don't get their way. Lead them on, then change your mind. Be sweet for a while and then for no reason reject the hell out of them.
thanks...I did notice that it works very well...changing the tone of my voice or interaction style from sweet to "i don't care" irritates the hell out of him...I just want to know if there are other things I can do?
Luckily I'm not emotionally hurt, only hurt by the fact that I was stupid, didn't realize that ESTPs are master manipulators....I thought I was ahead of the game...but I wasn't....now I just want to get back at him somehow....
You can't lose if you don't play games with people.
You can't lose if you don't play games with people.
Is that from experience. I would like for some ESTPs to respond to this one. I know the type, in my opinion, gets a very unfair rap when pertaining to responsibility. I actually think that many are describing, and so does Jung in his Chapter on type, ENTPs when they allude to the irresponsibility.Get pregnant! Works like a charm.
thanks for all the responses
thanks...I did notice that it works very well...changing the tone of my voice or interaction style from sweet to "i don't care" irritates the hell out of him...I just want to know if there are other things I can do?
Luckily I'm not emotionally hurt, only hurt by the fact that I was stupid, didn't realize that ESTPs are master manipulators....I thought I was ahead of the game...but I wasn't....now I just want to get back at him somehow....
Dump him.
Be dignified in the dumping.
Move on.
Best way to get back at anyone.
If dumping has already been done, don't talk to them.
well, he keeps bugging me, won't leave me alone, and I thought there is a way at getting back at him while he didn't give up completely? I'm always very nice, but I was just wondering how to change my behavior to get back at him just a little? But it seems like ESTPs don't care either way....
Is that from experience. I would like for some ESTPs to respond to this one. I know the type, in my opinion, gets a very unfair rap when pertaining to responsibility. I actually think that many are describing, and so does Jung in his Chapter on type, ENTPs when they allude to the irresponsibility.
And I am not sure if your core beliefs are rare Halla, but that is exactly how I see them on these sort of matters.There is no way in hell that I would ever turn my back on my children. Even if I fathered a child outside of marriage, when I was younger, older, whatever, any offspring of mine will be provided, cared for, and will have me in their life as an active father figure. So, I think ESTPs get a bad rap on this too, actually. :steam:
And I am not sure if your core beliefs are rare Halla, but that is exactly how I see them on these sort of matters.
If you see them interacting with others and being the usual entertainer join the conversation, listen, yawn, and move on. Little shit like that will irritate them