How high is your self-esteem?

[Forever]

You have scored 55

What your scoring means:

You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.

 

[nonsequitur]

You have scored 66

What your scoring means:

You have excellent self-esteem. You may well have had problems with valuing yourself in the past, but you have become a confident person with a proper appreciation of yourself. You are almost certainly someone who other people like and admire, and your belief in yourself helps you to make good friendships and relationships. However, your inner confidence also enables you to feel happy and relaxed when you are alone.

 

[Obfuscate]

49

 

[miss fortune]

70

yes... I love me

 

[Mayflower]

54

 

[EJCC]

You have scored 55

What your scoring means:

You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.

 

[Lexicon]

You have scored 66

What your scoring means:

You have excellent self-esteem. You may well have had problems with valuing yourself in the past, but you have become a confident person with a proper appreciation of yourself. You are almost certainly someone who other people like and admire, and your belief in yourself helps you to make good friendships and relationships. However, your inner confidence also enables you to feel happy and relaxed when you are alone.


I guess I'm good with this - but, I've always been happy alone, even when I had issues with myself. Kind of a pointless statement, but, what can you expect from an online inventory?

 

[Hiraeth]

You have scored 56

What your scoring means:

You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.

 

[geedoenfj]

You have scored 56

What your scoring means:

You have quite good self-esteem on the whole. But you sometimes fail to believe in yourself enough. Remember you are a special and unique person. Many people with your score feel confident in what they do for a living and get a lot of affirmation from that. It's important however, to feel good about who you are, not just about what you do. Have a think about this.

Same, 56 is what I got

 

[Peter Deadpan]

You have scored 48

What your scoring means:

Many people think you are confident and in charge of your life. You're not so sure! It may be that you had a difficult upbringing with parents who were too demanding of you. Or perhaps you have always felt that you're not as bright as other people think you are. Or maybe you feel unlovable.

If you're in a relationship, it's possible that you often feel anxious about it. Sometimes you may worry that you'll 'muck things up'. You may also have serious concerns that your partner may one day decide you're not worth loving.


I'm pretty sure no one thinks I'm confident and in charge of my life. Everyone who knows me knows the struggles I've gone through the last few years. Had I not been so open, I would have gotten stuck in a very dark place. Side note: I have significant fear of abandonment due to my childhood, a failed (abusive) marriage, and a lost love. I'm definitely struggling right now. It is what it is...

 

[ThaumaturgicTheorist]

Well, uh....it's not the lowest that's been recorded here. :/

Then again, maybe I actually appraise myself accurately instead of letting myself believe feel-good lies about my worth and ability.

 

[Norrsken]

55

 

[RedAmazoneFriendZone]

You have scored 71

What your scoring means:

You have excellent self-esteem. You may well have had problems with valuing yourself in the past, but you have become a confident person with a proper appreciation of yourself. You are almost certainly someone who other people like and admire, and your belief in yourself helps you to make good friendships and relationships. However, your inner confidence also enables you to feel happy and relaxed when you are alone.

 

[TheMainFlamingo]

You have scored 73

What your scoring means:

You have excellent self-esteem. You may well have had problems with valuing yourself in the past, but you have become a confident person with a proper appreciation of yourself. You are almost certainly someone who other people like and admire, and your belief in yourself helps you to make good friendships and relationships. However, your inner confidence also enables you to feel happy and relaxed when you are alone.

 

[Firebird 8118]

You have scored 38

What your scoring means:

The chances are that you really don't like yourself much at all. And yet nature has made you utterly unique. You have as much right to be on this planet, and to do as well, as anyone else. You have great personal qualities. But they do need bringing out.

 

[1487610420]

over nine thousand

 

[PalebloodHunter]

64.

I will fuck the sky.

 

[Kanra Jest]

You have scored 51

What your scoring means:
Many people think you are confident and in charge of your life. You're not so sure! It may be that you had a difficult upbringing with parents who were too demanding of you. Or perhaps you have always felt that you're not as bright as other people think you are. Or maybe you feel unlovable.
If you're in a relationship, it's possible that you often feel anxious about it. Sometimes you may worry that you'll 'muck things up'. You may also have serious concerns that your partner may one day decide you're not worth loving.

 

[Yuurei]

You have scored 65

What your scoring means:

You have excellent self-esteem. You may well have had problems with valuing yourself in the past, but you have become a confident person with a proper appreciation of yourself. You are almost certainly someone who other people like and admire, and your belief in yourself helps you to make good friendships and relationships. However, your inner confidence also enables you to feel happy and relaxed when you are alone.

I add a bonus of + 10 knowing that nearly everyone else I have met who grew up in a similar situation has been utterly destroyed by now.

 

[Abendrot]

You have scored 64.

I don't really have a "self esteem".
I simply regard my strengths and weaknesses as what they are, without deprecation or aggrandizement.
I believe that feelings of inadequacy and looking down upon others are two sides of the same coin.
And so, I do not derive my pride through comparison with others, but rather by living in accordance with my values and goals; this is one of the reasons why my neuroticism is so low.

Indeed, far lower than it used to be.