help me decide (with pics)

[scantilyclad]

One of my good friends is getting married on friday (or maybe saturday i dont remember which day) anyway my dates(my 2 best friends) are both wearing black tuxes. When i asked what i should wear the bride only said 2 things. 1. don't wear white and 2. don't wear anything that makes your boobs look bigger than mine.
My dates want me to wear something that matches them, so i've narrowed my search to 3 dresses.

i can give examples of what i look like in the dresses, but it will have to wait until mike gets home because i can't find the tripod.
I'm unsure about dresses 1 and 3 because they show my arms and shoulders and i'm insecure about those parts of my body. #1 might also show too much boobage. #2 is my safe and boring little black dress, i'm afraid if i wear that one, i will just blend in with my dates, and i want some sort of color to pop. My body probably looks best in #1 and #2 though. #3 is a little too big, but it's comfortable.I'm fashionably challenged and i need help so tell me what you think.

 

[proteanmix]

You have enviable breastesses so I can see why your friend would ask you to turn down the boobage on her weeping day.

Pics are good, but preliminary round I say 2 or 3.

 

[Falcarius]

If I was you I would pick the third dress. Then again I'm a guy, I don't really know about these sort of things. I just pick the closest thing to me in the wardrobe each day.

 

[INTJMom]

Based on what you've said so far, I say dress #2 since you might have too much boobage on dress #1, and #3 is a little too big. If you're worried about being boring, you can snaz up your little black dress with jewelry, a wide belt or a scarf. However if you're fashionably challenged, that might present a problem unless you have a friend who can help you coordinate your outfit. If all else fails, you could wear #3.

 

[heart]

Since the boob issue is out there, I'd say choice number two for boob minimization. The other two look like they would draw attention to your charms.

All three are beautiful dresses btw.

Since it is a wedding, maybe get a colorful flower corsage(sp?) to wear on it. With your lovely red hair I don't think you have too many worries about blending in too much with a date.

 

[scantilyclad]

thank you guys.
I think i will go with dress #2.