Aquarelle
Starcrossed Seafarer
- Joined
- Jun 16, 2010
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 4w5
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
For me, I don't mean an argument so much as a misunderstanding, where there is some communication glitch and you don't feel like you understood them completely and viceversa.
Although occasionally I bring things up like, for a long time I couldn't reach my mother by email except without prodding, and she would tell me she didn't have time to write because she was so busy reading my cousin Bobbie's emails. So at some point down the road, she asked why I didn't write more, and I said Oh, are you finished with Bobbie now? or some meowey such thing, and my mother paused a minute and said, "I haven't talked to Bobbie in two years." And I was like, So? Two minutes, two days, two years, it's all the same to me.
Haha, I like that story. And I can totally relate. I do the long-memory thing too... whether it's an offhand comment someone made that struck me a certain way, either positively or negatively, or a miscommunication, or an argument, I'll remember it. I can usually let it go, but I'll definitely remember.