Mind Maverick
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I'm sorry this was your experience. It's understandable and not overreacting at all that you would feel that way in response. I can understand why it'd create more stress for someone who is not neurotypical or emotionally stable, as I have mental health problems / am going through things that cause me to lack emotional stability in some ways myself. Thankfully though, the way this thread has gone, this dynamic, is not the usual experience here and I don't believe you will keep having this problem by continuing to post your pics here, but I can't blame you if you choose not to anyway.It's a risk I run only when I'm dealing with Americans apparently, since in my country it's just a normal symbol, and up to now I've always associated with people from my own country or at most the rest of Europe or Asia and Africa both in real life and online. Maybe I should keep it that way, I don't know all things about American culture, just as I am sure you people from the US don't know everything about other countries and what's happening there, and if I'll risk doing something wrong every time I click the "sumbit" button and have to worry over it for days, I'd rather keep to my small bubble. I know this may sound like overreacting to it and it probably is, but I'm really sorry for how things went, I don't even want American white supremacists to ever have an interest in me just because I used what in my country is just a funny, happy sign, that and the fact that I already have several things that are difficult to deal with in my life and I don't want to receive other kinds of worry in my free time; I've already received much stress from this misunderstanding alone, and while for a neurotypical or emotionally stable person it might seem like a stupid point of view, for a person that's already battling with other stressful and energy-draining problems it's not. I'll just keep posting my dumb pictures where people won't misinterpret is as something else, just as I've always done up to now. I'm sorry that a light-hearted and positive thread turned into such a mess because of me, I wish I'd never posted my picture here
Nah, they're not always open or proud about it. That is a very small percentage of racists. The majority are more like those who are closeted as you described. "Dog whistling," what you were basically accused of, is intended to be sort of discreet even, something that attracts like-minded people without raising alarm from opposing members...so tbh I disagree with @Powehi here, no offense. Either way, the statements made were basically accusatory without much basis and they were inappropriate. I don't think it was a cultural difference. Please don't summarize it as a cultural thing. Most of the people who defended you were American as well.I see. I didn't know in America racists were open about being racist and even proud of it. In my country we do have a racism problem as well, but it's kinda seen as a shameful thing by a lot of people and usually racists try to stay "in the closet" about it or try to deny the fact they're racist not to be criticized by people. The few people who are openly and proudly racist in my country are seen as deranged and to be avoided, so it was automatic for me to assume that no one in their sane mind would deliberately post a picture of themselves using a racist symbol or admit it proudly when they're asked about it. I see that in the end it was just a cultural problem, as a person coming from outside the US I can't know everything about it, just like Americans can't know everything about other countries, not to mention that the media here have hardly talked about the protests and the bits of information you can gain online from here are not very specific
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