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So I have been working as of late to try and incorporate the Fe communicative modes into my speech when I interact with Fe users.
All the stuff the INFJs and peacebaby taught us in the INFJ common issues thread. This works really well one on one with Fe users, as the listening, questioning, listening flows very naturally.
However today I ended up in a convo with a very Te ESTJ and an very Fe ISFJ... It involved a work issue, thus required some amount of technical discussion.
I found myself alternating between talking to each even though they were side by side, and flipping from my natural direct Te style to a active listening, questioning Fe mode in the same convo...It worked but was very odd and I found it hard to get the Te points directly across in way the ESTJ needed without being too direct and dominating the ISFJ.
How do Fe users (or anyone else) adapt to the different people in an group dialougue/meeting when the individuals have very, very different communication styles?
All the stuff the INFJs and peacebaby taught us in the INFJ common issues thread. This works really well one on one with Fe users, as the listening, questioning, listening flows very naturally.
However today I ended up in a convo with a very Te ESTJ and an very Fe ISFJ... It involved a work issue, thus required some amount of technical discussion.
I found myself alternating between talking to each even though they were side by side, and flipping from my natural direct Te style to a active listening, questioning Fe mode in the same convo...It worked but was very odd and I found it hard to get the Te points directly across in way the ESTJ needed without being too direct and dominating the ISFJ.
How do Fe users (or anyone else) adapt to the different people in an group dialougue/meeting when the individuals have very, very different communication styles?