No functions in common, so should be easy.
Do you care are harmony? Do other people's feelings matter as much as your own?
Do you use Ni?
Or do you use Te? Are you logical? Efficient? Organized? Structured?
ENFJ and ESTJ really are not similar, except that they both can be forceful personalities....
Well, I understand how this can be viewed as such a obvious forum. I've been viewed at times as a people pleaser (idealist) and then at times as goal based and aggressive, so thanks for your response.
My introspection is more on practicality and reality of my past experiences. Its not imagination beyond time and space. Its hard for me to see the future without first minding present reality.
I'am viewed as logical and aggressive minded, but then there are time where I do care and want to give to others.
Now I'm wondering what the deference is between ENFJ and ESFJ.... lol
But if I'am a sensor, then I enjoy MBTI a lot more than most sensors....
I am an ENFJ who frequently tests as an ESTJ. This is largely due to my enneagram type. Sorting that out might help to some degree.
I don't feel like I' m smart enough to be intuitive. I only have a basic or average IQ
But I don't feel athletic to be sensing. I'm decent at athletics, but no athlete.
The difference between ESFJ and ENFJ 's is that ESFJ's use Si, they like to talk and talk about facts (taken from personal experience , that they have read etc.)
What i mean is that they prefer and get energized with conversations that make them use their *memory*. You can find an *obvious* ESFJ talking with details about past experiences or how he/she went there and met him and did that etc..
But you can find also an ESFJ with high Ne talking about philosopy for example.The difference is that the ESFJ will most probably talk about philosophy like that: "This philosopher said that and this philosopher said that and this philosopher said that" etc...You see that the ESFJ uses Ne to gather data from the outer world (reading philosophical books) and *save* them in the memory (unorganized obviously because they dont use Ti) then they like to acess that info.
The ENFJ on the other hand will not care too much about what each different philosopher said , but their philosophical data will not come from outside (Ne) but from an inside subjective source (ni) that means that they will probably speak more about their philosophical insights and care less about citing philosophers.
Which style of communication do you prefer
EDIT: i misread as ESFJ vs ENFJ , but what i said applies also for ESTJ
These are bad, and baseless stereotypes. Don't use these sorts of external manifestations to figure your type out. There are plenty of S's on here whom are wicked smart. I've also met plenty of N's in my day that were dumb as posts. Your intelligence level does not effect what type you are.
Further, athletic skill has nothing to do with type either. As parallel to the above, I have met many N's who were immensely physically talented. I've also met many S's who trip over their own two feet.
EDIT: A really good way to help sorting your type out, is to hang around this place for a while. Post in other threads, get to know others. In turn, they'll get to know you. After a few months, making a type me thread will likely be much more productive. By that point people will have a decent foundation to work with, and can reference things you may have said or done previously, and see how it matches up with any sort of question people ask you at current.