[ESFJ] ESFJ Hate Thread

[DJAchtundvierzig]

I have come to know that alot of people on here do not like ESFJs. Why is this? What makes them so bad?

 

[Redbone]

'Cause their emotional control will fry your brain!

 

[Lark]

You guys get to hate people, cool!

 

[Vasilisa]

Ewww, what are you, the harbinger of hate threads?

There are existing discussions on ESFJ issues/interactions:

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/what-s-my-type/24743-why-doesn-t-anyone-like-esfj-s.html
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/sj-guardhouse/19201-your-views-esfj-s.html
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/nf-idyllic/20829-getting-along-esfj-s.html​

Maybe they aren't hateful enough for you, but there they are.

 

[Lark]

I'm bringing the love to the thread.

I would date an ESFJ! Yeah, that's me, out on a limb, bringing tha love.

 

[DJAchtundvierzig]

Ewww, what are you, the harbinger of hate threads?

There are existing discussions on ESFJ issues/interactions:

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/what-s-my-type/24743-why-doesn-t-anyone-like-esfj-s.html
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/sj-guardhouse/19201-your-views-esfj-s.html
http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/nf-idyllic/20829-getting-along-esfj-s.html​

Maybe they aren't hateful enough for you, but there they are.

Hahaha, I guess I am... I for one love ESFJs to be honest.
Thank you for the list.

 

[Little Linguist]

Oh.

Sweet.

Jesus.

 

[Redbone]

I would date an ESFJ! Yeah, that's me, out on a limb, bringing tha love.

Noooo--don't do it! Your NT will fry their heart!

 

[Domino]

I like them. Or is that 'lick' them?

 

[sciski]

I personally think that a helluva lot of hatable 'ESFJs' are not, in fact, ESFJs, but other types who have been socialised into exhibiting ESFJ behaviours. Therefore they don't wear ESFJ well--because they don't mean it.

Of course there are some very unhealthy ESFJs out there, but I tend to feel pity for them rather than hate. Sad Fe =

 

[miss fortune]

I love a good ESFJ... there's few people out there who have such a sense of warmness about them and are very good friends who you can always rely on and who will always be there for you

 

[Glycerine]

The ESFJ bad side can be VERY intense. They do angry. Other than that, they can be quite lovely.

 

[JoSunshine]

My sister and my BFF are both ESFJ's. Love em.

 

[Redbone]

^See? It's already too late for you!

They've got lots of and will freely give you . If you're upset, they will too.

You're in trouble if they get :steam:...that's just your ass.

Good to hang out with for some :yim_rolling_on_the_

Like any type--can be good, bad, or anything in between.

 

[Aquarelle]

I was borne of the womb on an ESFJ, and I married one, too. I like them okay.

 

[Such Irony]

I happen to like ESFJs. I need someone to balance out my overthinking and weak Fe.

 

[Saslou]

Yayyyyy ... Got to love the hate threads

 

[DJAchtundvierzig]

Yayyyyy ... Got to love the hate threads

And thank you everyone for your posts, they are appriciated.

 

[strychnine]

I like the ones here. Unfortunately 3 I know IRL are just... messed up. (bad past? idk)

Oh and my roommate is some sort of xSFJ, she is a very nice person (not one of the messed up ones).

 

[Devil Flamingo]

I think one of my best mates is a ESFJ, and he gets me like mostly no-one does, sooo...