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we're not crazy......or mean... maybe a little controlling.. but not crazy!!!
^ I've seen it happen too, it blows my mind away... One of my best-friends for once. It pisses the hell out of me... ><
They don't see what is wrong with a man behaving that way.
You're also right , I noticed that it's usually " unhealthy" ENTJ's that attempt this.
we're not crazy......or mean... maybe a little controlling.. but not crazy!!!
haha old school.
As much as I've changed in the last 2 years I still stand by this thread.
The terrible reception doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
I mean yes there could have been a more perfect example, but I made do with what I had in the moment.
I wouldn't have been able to provide a perfect example verbatim otherwise because most of the time these sort of things happen in person and not in a copy-paste environment.
I felt when I posted it as I feel now that I was showing you a point of weakness, and demonstrated a shortcoming which is characteristic of ENTJs.
What's that weakness specifically? Feeling over-comfortable with people and expecting them to take your good intentions as given.
While the female ENTJs may have little experience of this, I'm sure many of the males will agree with me.
Is it impossible for a person to be honest and straightforward, while being very tactful in the delivery at the same time?
haha old school.
As much as I've changed in the last 2 years I still stand by this thread.
The terrible reception doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
I mean yes there could have been a more perfect example, but I made do with what I had in the moment.
I wouldn't have been able to provide a perfect example verbatim otherwise because most of the time these sort of things happen in person and not in a copy-paste environment.
I felt when I posted it as I feel now that I was showing you a point of weakness, and demonstrated a shortcoming which is characteristic of ENTJs.
What's that weakness specifically? Feeling over-comfortable with people and expecting them to take your good intentions as given.
While the female ENTJs may have little experience of this, I'm sure many of the males will agree with me.
If she doesnt think she needs to improve something and you are trying to convince her that she does, then you are just being annoying
ENTJ in a nutshell:
The end.
So that's why I never get objective critics about my appearance (or my novels). I wish I had an ENTJ friend (though I've trained my ESTJ well )Murkrow, there is a time and a place for speaking objectively. And you don't do it to a female friend about her genetic appearances if you want to keep her as a friend. I think you severely miscalculated the balance of a point being proven and the worth of that point being proven.
Whether that girl's nose looks big in a photo is hardly objective.Being aware of your flaws is not always a bad thing. Sometimes it's rather productive, and self-improving. : )
depends if the person takes it objectively or personally.
Whether that girl's nose looks big in a photo is hardly objective.
Are you saying shes in denial or being emotional, because she disagreed with him?