ISFP
This was brief and in the days of ol' (i was 13/he was 16). He always meant well and we got along, but didn't
get each other. I felt i was more mature in regard to the relationship than he was and, inevitably, he had an issue with the age difference.
Eight years later and he's kept up this introverted quest for women ha. Still a nice guy though.
INFP
A better friendship than a relationship. We could swap ideas and come close to understanding each other really well. Had a lot of the same kinds of interests (writing/computers/fitness) and were basically compassionate people. When thrown in a relationship, he got dependent and i withdrew. This turned into intense manipulation tactics from both sides whenever one of us felt threatened (frequently).
We're civil and talk infrequently.
ESTJ
Sexual chemistry (not surprising
), but no real, grounded connection. His mind worked in the black and white world, while mine floated around in gray areas. He loved attention and being viewed as 'the best' at anything, but would debase anything he wasn't good at or didn't understand.
We haven't spoken or seen each other in 4 years. He can get hit by a mac truck.
ENFP
Unhealthy rebound central. I like ENFPs, but not this one. We dated for a grand total of 3 weeks and he topped the INFP on the crazy charts. We could talk, rather,
he could talk for ages. He'd discuss what he could do, but wouldn't do it. Talk himself out of trying to do things.
Only plus i could see is that he would speak well of anyone he is dating.
xxTP
I roughly typed him ESTP or ENTP - he tested INTP. Anyway.
We had a fantastic connection, but our lifestyles were insanely different. His whole attitude had this Nike "Just Do It!" feel to it. Mine was more laid back, calculated, and worried. I was excessively emotional. He was ice cold, or tried to be even when emotional. His thoughts were very erratic, but enthralling.
We loved the hell out of each other
, but there were too many mistakes and a lot of miscommunication.