Mal12345
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- Joined
- Apr 19, 2011
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- MBTI Type
- IxTP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
This program assumes that a) you are good enough and don't have significant problems in your life due to some area of inadequacy, and b) your early relationship with your parents is the source of this belief. If either of those is not true, the program won't work.
a) Even if you're not good enough, it only has to do with specific problems, it is not a judgment on you as a person. That was stated directly on one of those screens.
b) The lecturer stated that his method works even if you can't remember your childhood. Even then, he doesn't assume that your parents are the source of your belief. However, as a child you were no doubt trying to please some authority figure, it doesn't matter who it was. Otherwise, it is doubtful you would have developed the belief "I'm not good enough."