myuniqueusername111
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I have a question for male INTPs. I will just share the details so you can assess better. Thanks in advance 😊
I am a female ENJT and is currently involved in an organization in our school. I am the head of our team. I have this male INTP member whom I like because he is not afraid to voice out dissent and his opinions are always logical. I seek his advice for every activity because he finds loopholes better than me. Thus, we can ensure that our activities will be successful.
I started liking him some months ago because one time I was having problems he took charge of the team and did well. He is also one of the few people who is not intimidated by me and he is logical and not so emotional. Thus, I can discuss things with him without him being hurt or offended. I can be blunt and honest with him.
I'd like to know if there is a chance that he likes me or is just tolerating me. He:
1. Invited me twice to go to a concert of christian bands (along with his cousins/family members) which never manifested because of schedule conflicts
2. Invited me to go their house to to play some music (I did not take this seriously coz I dont know if he's joking or what)
3. Always helps me out, volunteers to go out with me to run errands/fix things
4. Studies with me (and other friend he isnt close to)
5. Eats with me
6. Talks to me everytime I chance upon him in school
7. Shares stories like childhood stories, past lovelife, future plans
8. Chats with me online for hours (i always chat first)
9. Holds me always to show he's cold
However,
I am a female ENJT and is currently involved in an organization in our school. I am the head of our team. I have this male INTP member whom I like because he is not afraid to voice out dissent and his opinions are always logical. I seek his advice for every activity because he finds loopholes better than me. Thus, we can ensure that our activities will be successful.
I started liking him some months ago because one time I was having problems he took charge of the team and did well. He is also one of the few people who is not intimidated by me and he is logical and not so emotional. Thus, I can discuss things with him without him being hurt or offended. I can be blunt and honest with him.
I'd like to know if there is a chance that he likes me or is just tolerating me. He:
1. Invited me twice to go to a concert of christian bands (along with his cousins/family members) which never manifested because of schedule conflicts
2. Invited me to go their house to to play some music (I did not take this seriously coz I dont know if he's joking or what)
3. Always helps me out, volunteers to go out with me to run errands/fix things
4. Studies with me (and other friend he isnt close to)
5. Eats with me
6. Talks to me everytime I chance upon him in school
7. Shares stories like childhood stories, past lovelife, future plans
8. Chats with me online for hours (i always chat first)
9. Holds me always to show he's cold
However,
- Never chats me online, ever
- I invited him to a museum and he declined saying he never goes out and I know it
- We ate once and he didnt walk me home even it's already late coz his house is nearby