ThoughtBubbles
Pansexual Primadonna
- Joined
- Oct 1, 2018
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- sx/so
I just admitted the terms and reasons for which I prefer one style over another. There was no intention to portray those who prefer the other style in a negative manner
Oh I wasn't offended. I'm about as far from preferring micromanagement as they come. I quit a very well regarded position because my boss was a serious micromanager. People thought I was a bit crazy for that, but I just. Couldn't. Do. It. I doubt anyone else would be offended either.
I was just saying it's kind of like asking a group of men, "Do you prefer being pussywhipped or an independent decision maker in your relationship ?"
See how like... yes, there are guys who DO like being "pussywhipped"... but it's got kind of a negative connotation to admit to it? It's not wrong to ask it, it just would go against human psychology to admit to something like that a lot of times unless the person is very reflective lol.
I wasn't saying your intentions were bad, just that there is an implication behind how you worded it that people wouldn't naturally admit to even if it were the case.