wolfy
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instead of SP Central it should just be called what it is - Awesome Central.
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Something like that. I miss the Big Boys Toys show in NZ
I'm very stereotypically ISTP in my line of work...and people are always SHOCKED to find out I have a master's degree in Latin and philosophy.
One thing I have discovered is that Europeans accept, if not expect, that a person pursue a variety of interests and activities. Americans find that upsetting and demand a singular focus...you can't be an athlete and a scholar...an artist and a successful business person...a poet and a car mechanic...or all of them combined.
We Americans are in some ways the most conventional and rigid of peoples.
Sometimes, the forum gets to be a bit too toxic.
It's getting to the point that I'm not sure I can be on here any longer, the ignorance about what it means to be an SP (or SJ) vs NT and NF is beginning to make me see red.
Anyone else feel like that?
I mean seriously, it's driving me f'in nuts.
I've realized that I really can't go anywhere on here except the SP forum, <snip>. If I stick to my own kind, all good! (Eye roll)
Funny, because a big chunk of my friends irl are of the intuitive variety-
Something like that. I miss the Big Boys Toys show in NZ
I, too, very much liked McRumi's take on being well-rounded. Your wanting "to do EVERYTHING!" is wonderful. Whatever profession(s) you end up in, I think your intelligent curiosity will make you a better employee (or freelancer or small business owner) -- balanced, valuable, one who can understand the big picture in a company or in co-worker interactions.
Life contains so much that's intriguing and amazing! Everywhere!
...I am truly interested in improving myself, and I feel I can probably gain some insight. Myers-Briggs, as I understand it, is supposed to help people help themselves, by giving understanding of potential natural tendancies within their defined types. What many people seem to forget is that, it is common for us to not follow a natural tendancy, either by upbringing or life experience, so it doesn't define who we are. But our understanding that it could be there is helpful.
Someone else said "lead by example" earlier in this thread, and that is what we need to do.
I think I just have to stay away from all of the popular culture typing threads. They make me really angry, one, because people have the presumption to 'just know' what a person's type is and they give little to no evidence and disagree with what evidence you give because they use their intuition which is something complicated that intuitives understand and that's why I'm not getting it and evidence proves nothing; and two, anyone who does anything original or wacky must be an NT or NF.
I am not saying most NTs and NFs do this, of course, but some most decidedly do.