I'm in confusion about whether I am judging or perceiving. I'm either INFJ or INFP. I relate much more to INFP especially their introverted feeling trait except I'm a bit iffy on the last letter. Here is a list of things that contribute:
-I dislike goals and see them as kind of stupid. In my mind I've always thought: If I want to do something I'll just do it. Whether I do it or not won't change because I've written it down on a piece of paper! (I used to get into arguments with my teachers about that a lot lol).
-I value the freedom to improvise.
-I like plans but only loose plans and I want to have the freedom to change them if I want to.
-If I were going to go on a vacation I wouldn't really plan anything I would just jot down a bunch of stuff I'd want to do but wouldn't make an actual itinerary.
-My ESTJ dad really annoys me when he's in this: if we don't have a set place we're going to or a set thing we're going to do then we might as well just go home and do nothing, mode.
-I am very organized and tidy.
-I hate uncertainty but hate tight itinerary's and need the freedom to improvise and do what I may want to do at any given moment.
-With cleaning and a lot of things in my life I'm usually an all or nothing person. I'll either clean the whole kitchen or I won't clean it at all. I'll either work really hard on this project or I won't try at it at all.
-In a workplace I don't really enjoy routine. And if I'm doing the same thing everyday I'd need to know that I'm working towards something big and important or else is begin to feel restless and unfulfilled.
-I do like being prepared for things and I often make to do lists.
-I am indecisive and if people are pressuring me to make a decision I either make a horrible decision or I get agitated, lash out, and get very distressed.
-I've always said this kind of thing to my mom as a kid and still have this mindset: Why wait to go places? If you want to go to the store and have the time why not just go right away? Why plan for later or tomorrow?
-When my life gets repetitive I start to get restless and look for the next big thing such as getting another pet or going on a vacation to make life exciting again.
-I'm not very laid back as I do have anxiety issues.
-I will admit that I have filled out the four year high school plan thing that was given out to me. Where you put down all the classes you'll take for the next couple years. I don't like uncertainty.
So in conclusion I'm trying to figure out whether I'm judging or perceiving. I feel like I really do like to have my options open but at the same time hate uncertainty?? I'd appreciate any insight and thankyou.
-I dislike goals and see them as kind of stupid. In my mind I've always thought: If I want to do something I'll just do it. Whether I do it or not won't change because I've written it down on a piece of paper! (I used to get into arguments with my teachers about that a lot lol).
-I value the freedom to improvise.
-I like plans but only loose plans and I want to have the freedom to change them if I want to.
-If I were going to go on a vacation I wouldn't really plan anything I would just jot down a bunch of stuff I'd want to do but wouldn't make an actual itinerary.
-My ESTJ dad really annoys me when he's in this: if we don't have a set place we're going to or a set thing we're going to do then we might as well just go home and do nothing, mode.
-I am very organized and tidy.
-I hate uncertainty but hate tight itinerary's and need the freedom to improvise and do what I may want to do at any given moment.
-With cleaning and a lot of things in my life I'm usually an all or nothing person. I'll either clean the whole kitchen or I won't clean it at all. I'll either work really hard on this project or I won't try at it at all.
-In a workplace I don't really enjoy routine. And if I'm doing the same thing everyday I'd need to know that I'm working towards something big and important or else is begin to feel restless and unfulfilled.
-I do like being prepared for things and I often make to do lists.
-I am indecisive and if people are pressuring me to make a decision I either make a horrible decision or I get agitated, lash out, and get very distressed.
-I've always said this kind of thing to my mom as a kid and still have this mindset: Why wait to go places? If you want to go to the store and have the time why not just go right away? Why plan for later or tomorrow?
-When my life gets repetitive I start to get restless and look for the next big thing such as getting another pet or going on a vacation to make life exciting again.
-I'm not very laid back as I do have anxiety issues.
-I will admit that I have filled out the four year high school plan thing that was given out to me. Where you put down all the classes you'll take for the next couple years. I don't like uncertainty.
So in conclusion I'm trying to figure out whether I'm judging or perceiving. I feel like I really do like to have my options open but at the same time hate uncertainty?? I'd appreciate any insight and thankyou.