I agree with this. 3s an turn their negatives into positives. 1s tend to acknowledge their faults and attempt to fix them. 1s have tendency to "fix" themselves whereas 3s want to be "above" their faults in order to keep up their self-image.
Pretty much. Where a 3 may brush off or deny some fault, a 1 might grind on it to the point of self-flaggelation.
And then, hopefully, they both face reality and adjust their respective approaches into something that's actually workable.
With 3s, it's really hard these days because their image can be being a good person (go running everyday, have a career that maintains their self-image or whatever) ...3s can look like 1s sometimes.
I'd differentiate as follows -- 3s want to be valuable (which may involve e.g. running every day, having that desirable career). 1s want to be right(eous) and good while also putting a good solid order to the world around them.
For a 3, the veneer is the only thing the outside world sees. So, hey, masks become pretty good shortcuts to establishing value! But we all know that a construct lies upon lies upon lies is just a house of cards that's asking for a slight poke from actual truth.
Contrast to a 1. Their thoughts and behavior are often well-intentioned, though perhaps overboard and rigid.
Mash the two together. Value and virtue do overlap. A
lot. And, hey; virtues
in and of themselves are seen as valuable. To be seen as good is, usually, to also be seen as valuable. So 3s and 1s can get confused that way.
(I have a love-hate relationship with what's right or virtuous, often wondering whether it ought to be pursued for its own sake. I do question it.)
with a one wing, it's less about maintaining an image and more about really trying to do what it is right. I have a 2w1 friend who will point out bad behaviors in others. I am not sure if a 3 would do that because it is more self-focused. If they point out bad behaviors in others, then it's only to make themselves look better than their "competition". Like 2w3 is a more "selfish" version of the 2???
This goes back to 1's well-intentioned qi, totally. Your basic model 3 wouldn't care as much. I'd agree about those wings.