Wildflower84
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- May 8, 2022
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- MBTI Type
- Esfj
Will an INFJ check an ex-girlfriend's social media after he broke up with her? He suffered so much, more because his negative thoughts, trust issues, but in reality all the troughts he made were not real ones. Unfortunately there was a miscommunication, because she had anxiety too, so she waited him to text her, and also he waited her to text him. After no one text to each others, the INFJ guy thinks that she left him ( which wasn't true) and from intense love started to develop anger and a little bit of impolite behavior. He still didn't texted to her, but updated their album with quotes about his feelings. After she saw it she become anxious because she knew that was a misunderstanding. She was very polite, kind, lovely with him. She disliked conflicts and she didn't talk to other guys. Also she had the same artistic personality like him, but because of her anxiety disorder she had some troubles expressing her feelings for him. Because of this the INFJ even dubting her if she really loved him as he did, or it was still a joke. Now their comunicateion isn't based on direct messages anymore, but only by their album where they shared quotes about their feelings. She tried to explain by quotes to him that she really loved him and never texted to other guys, but isn't sure if the INFJ guy saw them. He might probably not check it, but interesting fact is that both of them did not unflow them on social media. If INFJ will see that was a misunderstood and his intuition were wrong, what he would feel? What he will do?