Hetaira
New member
- Joined
- Sep 1, 2015
- Messages
- 44
- MBTI Type
- INFP
- Enneagram
- 9
I am an INFP and my best friend is an ISFP. We are both in our early 50's.
Both of us love to laugh and have a great time together.
Recently, we had a serious conversation, and I went away with my feelings crushed.
I have two facial scars that 90% of people say they never notice. However, my ISFP friend was telling me she HAS to date an attractive man even if his character is not the best. I asked her when she looked at me did she notice my facial scars or just see me? I was hoping she would see the heart of a person as more important than the shell.
She replied, "Every time I look at your face I see your facial scars. I am so sorry they have affected your beauty." WTH???? Damn Se!
I am no model, but how could she be so cruel?
She judges everyone by their status, their appearances, their possessions, etc.
I am beginning to feel our friendship has come to an end. She appears to me now to be the most vain, shallow, pitiful woman I have ever met in real life.
Both of us love to laugh and have a great time together.
Recently, we had a serious conversation, and I went away with my feelings crushed.
I have two facial scars that 90% of people say they never notice. However, my ISFP friend was telling me she HAS to date an attractive man even if his character is not the best. I asked her when she looked at me did she notice my facial scars or just see me? I was hoping she would see the heart of a person as more important than the shell.
She replied, "Every time I look at your face I see your facial scars. I am so sorry they have affected your beauty." WTH???? Damn Se!
I am no model, but how could she be so cruel?
She judges everyone by their status, their appearances, their possessions, etc.
I am beginning to feel our friendship has come to an end. She appears to me now to be the most vain, shallow, pitiful woman I have ever met in real life.