Hi, I met this INTP senior only during his last semester in college.
We clicked and there was chemistry between us.
However, he continued his education in another state and we are far apart now.
It has been a few months since. He texts me good morning and goodnight almost everyday. He also asked if I have a boyfriend.
He would explain to me when he is busy with work and reply me late (just a few times), and double text sometimes.
Sometimes he sends me pictures when he sees things that remind him of me.
The problem is, he is casually dating another girl now. He abruptly told me this after a friend tagged me a photo on fb.
it was a photo of me and my good guy friend during halloween party.
I was surprised to hear that and the way he said it was a bit hurtful. He didn't text me for 2 days after that.
He then texted me again after my guy friend mentioned to him that he has a girlfriend.
My friend thinks that he might have misunderstood that we were dating.
He told me that it is casual dating and the girl was the one who approached him first, asking his friends for his number.
he said he does not see her as a long term partner. Now he is still texting me every day like usual.
What does he want from me? Why is he still texting me when he is already dating someone?
I have tried to give cold replies or ignore his texts but he would just text again, telling me about his day etc. (although I didn't ask)
Once, I asked him how can he be so rational about everything and he said I am changing that. Probably an NT/NF thing.
I am an XNFP btw.
if he genuinely likes me, he wouldn't be dating someone else (even if it is just casual)?
Is he playing me or something?
Should I just ignore him? NFs are soft-hearted people so sometimes it is difficult.
We clicked and there was chemistry between us.
However, he continued his education in another state and we are far apart now.
It has been a few months since. He texts me good morning and goodnight almost everyday. He also asked if I have a boyfriend.
He would explain to me when he is busy with work and reply me late (just a few times), and double text sometimes.
Sometimes he sends me pictures when he sees things that remind him of me.
The problem is, he is casually dating another girl now. He abruptly told me this after a friend tagged me a photo on fb.
it was a photo of me and my good guy friend during halloween party.
I was surprised to hear that and the way he said it was a bit hurtful. He didn't text me for 2 days after that.
He then texted me again after my guy friend mentioned to him that he has a girlfriend.
My friend thinks that he might have misunderstood that we were dating.
He told me that it is casual dating and the girl was the one who approached him first, asking his friends for his number.
he said he does not see her as a long term partner. Now he is still texting me every day like usual.
What does he want from me? Why is he still texting me when he is already dating someone?
I have tried to give cold replies or ignore his texts but he would just text again, telling me about his day etc. (although I didn't ask)
Once, I asked him how can he be so rational about everything and he said I am changing that. Probably an NT/NF thing.
I am an XNFP btw.
if he genuinely likes me, he wouldn't be dating someone else (even if it is just casual)?
Is he playing me or something?
Should I just ignore him? NFs are soft-hearted people so sometimes it is difficult.