i was in a great relationship with an INFP. it was a summer fling kinda thing, didn't last, but very pleasant.
from my perspective the only problem i had with our relationship was that i tend to mold to match whoever i'm with, and he didn't really push me much, if that makes sense. to grow, i mean. which was why i was happy to let it glide by as a summer thing, instead of hanging on to it. perhaps he felt the same way.
but yeah, i'm for be yourself. your self will come to light in a relationship sooner or later anyway, might as well be sooner
PS ENFPs like selves
PPS ENFPs also like if you will go on adventures with them
(we could use a calmer partner on our wild rides)
like, you don't have to be crazy, we've got that covered, but it's nice if you like our crazy.