BlackCat
Shaman
- Joined
- Nov 19, 2008
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- MBTI Type
- ESFP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
So in almost every type 9 profile that I've read, it says that 9s do romance by merging with their partner. I'm pretty sure that this is any relationship where the 9 gets close to someone in general (whether it's friends, a long term relationship, a family member etc) in general.
What are your experiences with "merging" with people? What do you think that it is? It's never really been defined anywhere what it really is (unless I overlooked that, if so then post what it is).
In my experience it's like I know everything about the person I've merged with. Pretty much nothing can stop me from liking them. I know their needs, how they react to everything, etc.
Or maybe that's just really close psychological distance?
If so, then what is this merging?
What are your experiences with "merging" with people? What do you think that it is? It's never really been defined anywhere what it really is (unless I overlooked that, if so then post what it is).
In my experience it's like I know everything about the person I've merged with. Pretty much nothing can stop me from liking them. I know their needs, how they react to everything, etc.
Or maybe that's just really close psychological distance?
If so, then what is this merging?