Kierva
#KUWK
- Joined
- Dec 8, 2010
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- Enneagram
- 6w7
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
How dare it interrupt you?
Lol.. I so feel ya on that.
EXACTLY.
I lose my train of thought in my moment of inner focus.
How dare it interrupt you?
Lol.. I so feel ya on that.
Top 3 reasons why NFs suck:
Wrong topic.
so, if I understand you correctly, you are aware of the consequences but you're basically like "fuck it! I can't stop!"i guess i can do a little self hate
1. its not that i lack foresight but more like i can be quite impulsive sometimes, that maybe just me. (though im painfully aware of consequences)
if it makes you feel better, you guys are generally WAY better about this than Ne doms2. i have a buffer between my mind and mouth that i fail to use.
this sounds E73. i love having fun. i get bored easily, if im not having fun. i get annoyed with people who don`t know how to loosen up.
Resist temptation to make joke which no doubt someone has already.
Basic rehash of five years of bitchin' about the SPs.
1) They can't seem to plan beyond 24 hours or seem unwilling to.
This is by far the most annoying complaint I get. I get it from my friends often. Thing is, by not makin plans I'm actually being considerate. The old me would yes you then just not show up. So it's a mature SP who knows themselves enough to not make plans. I always say "call me before
you go" because if you really want me there that's the best way to get me out. Seems this also frustrates them. I don't know. But take it or leave it.
The main reason why SPs suck is that most reduce their lives to immediate pleasure and lately, revolve their lives around their image on social networks, and how they gauge themselves within the hierarchy of small local markets. Most dwell on the various ways in which they might rise in that hierarchy. ENJs and their tertiary Se might be part of that mess too. I'd actually say that ISPs might avoid that easier than ESP or ENFJ not just for the fact that they're introverted, but also critics. Sometimes the immediate surrounding doesn't become something they value, but something they're all too aware of, but hate.
But they can easily fall into the trap of gauging their worth that way too. I have, especially when I was young - and it takes some effort to truly tell everyone and everything to fuck off and not participate in the ratrace whatsoever.
Anyhow, in my view, this is the greatest threat to any Se valuers well being. And what makes many so loathesome to everyone else.
ISPs are the SPs who think before jumping. But one day wake up and curse themselves for not doing so.
Could you relate to what I said? Too bored to elaborate on what I said about why they regret.
I don't know I guess I would have to say the SPs I know seem to be to fixed in there thinking. A few of them I know don't seem to be able to admit fault very well either, but I don't think SPs suck as far as types go.