SwimmerGal97
New member
- Joined
- Sep 19, 2014
- Messages
- 124
How do you tell the difference? I get confused as I am someone who is very aware of my own feelings and how what I say and do impacts others (and how what other people say impacts others and I'll pick up on their reactions) and I am a believer in doing what you feel is right (As opposed to what makes money or something) however I am also someone prone to overthinking things, analysing things, weighing pros and cons, obsessively organising and classifying and not being worried about making tough calls in situations even if the 'right choice' might not be liked by people and most of the time, if I have a problem with something I will say it as it is and (because in MBTI tests this seems to be a question that comes up a lot), when a friend is in crisis I personally get the facts and talk possible solutions before I get onto their feelings. I imagine very few people in reality lie at that extreme end of the thinking spectrum where they are cold and oblivious to others feelings, but is being so perceptive to others feelings and being aware of my own a sign that I'm a feeler rather than a thinker? Or just that I'm a well balanced thinker?