Mal12345
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- Joined
- Apr 19, 2011
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- MBTI Type
- IxTP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
I've been thinking lately about the Sx allure. Hazashin's question to me on my wall about the Sx having to be alluring is based on an assumption. How can you know if you're alluring unless someone tells you? If you're like me, then you'll be so standoffish that nobody will have a chance to say anything. If you're like me, women will stare in your direction then suddenly look away so you won't notice it. In my case, I have a wife to tell me these things. She said the first thing she noticed about me before we actually met was my aura. I didn't know I had an aura until she told me. Secondly, I didn't know other women were staring at me until she told me the first times we went out together in public places. I remember how she whispered in my direction, "Did you know women are staring at you..." I told her I had noticed something like that before, but I thought it was because something was wrong with me, maybe they thought I was ugly or dress funny. She replied that it was for just the opposite reason.
I don't think this Instinctuals theory is going to be easy to sort out. It seems to take the entire typology question to a much deeper level. And I don't think the test I took was very good if it determined me to be the Sp, and none of the alternative results even mentioned Sx.
I don't think this Instinctuals theory is going to be easy to sort out. It seems to take the entire typology question to a much deeper level. And I don't think the test I took was very good if it determined me to be the Sp, and none of the alternative results even mentioned Sx.