Do any other ENTJ's out there have a strong knack for helping people with troubles they may be having in their life (socially,romantically and career wise)? It may seem strange but a lot of people come to me for advice and mention that i'm the only one who can give them useful insights. I usually don't mind at all lending my time to help them either. It might just be the way my letters come together ( E-55% N-100% T-75% J-55%) but I enjoy the complexities of lifes troubles and trying to work through them (MUCH more than small talk). A lot of the time i'l end up ignoring the same person I gave advice to if they only want small talk (''how was your day?, how's that new job?'' etc) because that bores the hell out of me and I feel trapped in a conversation I don't want to be having. <--- this can sometimes be very off-putting to people who think I must be incredibly interested in them because I'm willing to help them through deeper issues. I havn't read much (if anything) about any NT enjoying these types of things. Do any of you (NT's) tend to be the one people confide in and rely on for insight? Also, I KNOW i'm ENTJ but this is one of the few things that seem very inconsistant.
Note: I'm not just helping for the 'thrill of accomplishing'', I do genuinely care.
Note: I'm not just helping for the 'thrill of accomplishing'', I do genuinely care.