Hi all
I was typed like ESFJ, but I don't fit so much in the description type, so I will try again to explain myself ^^
Help is appreciated
1) Ne/Ni or Se?
I studied functions deeply and I'm sure that I don't use Si. Si is described like z function that can remember details really well, and to notice differences between past details and new details. I'm not good at this.
So, I studied Se and Ne/Ni.
I think I use a little bit of Se, because I like to do 'action things' (my favourite sports are extreme one, sailing, paragliding, rafting and these kind of things). At the same time I have a really deep network of interests, and I go from astronomy, physic, chemistry and 'heavy subjects' to psycology, religion and moral iussues. I never go into them so deeply, so I thought I use Ne, because I really like to interconnect these stuffs to look at the situation under billion different aspects, and I put together my previous knowledge to do something new (multipotentialite like Emilie Warpnick explained in her video). I have DIY hobbies, too; like gardening, cooking, writing, photography and build small stuffs by myself. (It looks crazy, but it's true... XD). I don't go deep in no one of them, of course, but I can say I'm silver in a lot of stuffs, and gold in 2 or 3.
I'm not sure if this is a Ne superpower or a Ni skill, because usually when I approach a problem I look for the big picture, and to discover patterns and trends to understand well where the situation is going on. Usually I literally follow these patterns and I do only little changes inside the situation, so I can reach my goal.
I stay well when the situation is fluid: not determined, still opened to new endings, but going on I can say which end will be, and for sure. Usually I notice the end with average time before it will happens. Again, unsure if this is Ni.
2) Fi/Fe or Ti?
Usually I don't like to do stuffs 'because it is appropriate'. I think that a person is similar to others, but has skills that are proper to her/him. To cover these skills is the worst thing that we can do. I think that one job/action can be done in different ways by people, because of their skills and approach to stuffs. (Fi?)
At the same time I think that, to be accepted, these skills has to fit in some way in the society, to be expressed. In the other hand, they will be lose. So, in my opinion is necessary to fit in and then to be different from others (Fe?). Usually I change my behaviour basing on the 'room temperature' but I don't do actions that I think aren't for me (if others smoke, I will not because I don't like).
Usually I tend to be accomodating to others, in order that 1) they fit the system and 2) they do logical stuffs.
And so, my dilemma on Ti. When I face a problem I value prons and cons, cause and effect, actions and reactions. I put into the equation 'the human factor' but if I have to value a situation, I value from 1) facts -actions/reactions- 2) patterns -big picture/where are we going/how this situation will evelove) 3) people -how they will react at the objective situation/what they will do and consequentially how the situation will develop-.
I put numbers before each step, but for me is really difficult to divide these points, usually I consider them all together, with slight amount of one to other basing on the situation.
Every situation for me is new, and so I reserve to myself the decision to which one of these points has higher priority.
I don't think I use Te because I don't 'plan' actions in a proper sense, it's better to say that I react to others and I do my actions going on. I have only the final goal, and I do actions basing me on the current situation to arrive at the goal.
3) EXTRA INFOS
I'm a messy person, but in my chaos there is order. So, I don't know if I'm a orderly or a messy XD if you look at my room there are a lot of books, and tools and stuffs that can be apparently put in a messy way, but I know why I put them there and
Usually I dislike people that are indecisive. If I enter in a shop and I wear a dress to see if I like it, I can decide quickly (only for example). My mother can stay 7 hours in a shop, and wear and wear again dresses to see which one is better .-. T.T I value pros and cons, I decide my goal, and I buy which one is better fitting to my needs.
I haven't so many friends, usually I make 4-5 deeper connections with people, basing on my instict and to what they demonstrate to me in facts and behaviours, but I can have several superficial connections with others. I don't like large parties, and can be difficult, basing on the 'room temperature' to speak to a public, or to be under spotlights. I can be a little better under spotlights only if I'm sure that I know very well my skills, and I'm confident, but usually it's a side effect.
I like to stay with my few friends deep-connection, and I really enjoy to make these connection deeper.
Sorry for any confusion, I will reply to you if there is something that it's needed to be better explained
Thank you for attention ^^
I was typed like ESFJ, but I don't fit so much in the description type, so I will try again to explain myself ^^
Help is appreciated
1) Ne/Ni or Se?
I studied functions deeply and I'm sure that I don't use Si. Si is described like z function that can remember details really well, and to notice differences between past details and new details. I'm not good at this.
So, I studied Se and Ne/Ni.
I think I use a little bit of Se, because I like to do 'action things' (my favourite sports are extreme one, sailing, paragliding, rafting and these kind of things). At the same time I have a really deep network of interests, and I go from astronomy, physic, chemistry and 'heavy subjects' to psycology, religion and moral iussues. I never go into them so deeply, so I thought I use Ne, because I really like to interconnect these stuffs to look at the situation under billion different aspects, and I put together my previous knowledge to do something new (multipotentialite like Emilie Warpnick explained in her video). I have DIY hobbies, too; like gardening, cooking, writing, photography and build small stuffs by myself. (It looks crazy, but it's true... XD). I don't go deep in no one of them, of course, but I can say I'm silver in a lot of stuffs, and gold in 2 or 3.
I'm not sure if this is a Ne superpower or a Ni skill, because usually when I approach a problem I look for the big picture, and to discover patterns and trends to understand well where the situation is going on. Usually I literally follow these patterns and I do only little changes inside the situation, so I can reach my goal.
I stay well when the situation is fluid: not determined, still opened to new endings, but going on I can say which end will be, and for sure. Usually I notice the end with average time before it will happens. Again, unsure if this is Ni.
2) Fi/Fe or Ti?
Usually I don't like to do stuffs 'because it is appropriate'. I think that a person is similar to others, but has skills that are proper to her/him. To cover these skills is the worst thing that we can do. I think that one job/action can be done in different ways by people, because of their skills and approach to stuffs. (Fi?)
At the same time I think that, to be accepted, these skills has to fit in some way in the society, to be expressed. In the other hand, they will be lose. So, in my opinion is necessary to fit in and then to be different from others (Fe?). Usually I change my behaviour basing on the 'room temperature' but I don't do actions that I think aren't for me (if others smoke, I will not because I don't like).
Usually I tend to be accomodating to others, in order that 1) they fit the system and 2) they do logical stuffs.
And so, my dilemma on Ti. When I face a problem I value prons and cons, cause and effect, actions and reactions. I put into the equation 'the human factor' but if I have to value a situation, I value from 1) facts -actions/reactions- 2) patterns -big picture/where are we going/how this situation will evelove) 3) people -how they will react at the objective situation/what they will do and consequentially how the situation will develop-.
I put numbers before each step, but for me is really difficult to divide these points, usually I consider them all together, with slight amount of one to other basing on the situation.
Every situation for me is new, and so I reserve to myself the decision to which one of these points has higher priority.
I don't think I use Te because I don't 'plan' actions in a proper sense, it's better to say that I react to others and I do my actions going on. I have only the final goal, and I do actions basing me on the current situation to arrive at the goal.
3) EXTRA INFOS
I'm a messy person, but in my chaos there is order. So, I don't know if I'm a orderly or a messy XD if you look at my room there are a lot of books, and tools and stuffs that can be apparently put in a messy way, but I know why I put them there and
Usually I dislike people that are indecisive. If I enter in a shop and I wear a dress to see if I like it, I can decide quickly (only for example). My mother can stay 7 hours in a shop, and wear and wear again dresses to see which one is better .-. T.T I value pros and cons, I decide my goal, and I buy which one is better fitting to my needs.
I haven't so many friends, usually I make 4-5 deeper connections with people, basing on my instict and to what they demonstrate to me in facts and behaviours, but I can have several superficial connections with others. I don't like large parties, and can be difficult, basing on the 'room temperature' to speak to a public, or to be under spotlights. I can be a little better under spotlights only if I'm sure that I know very well my skills, and I'm confident, but usually it's a side effect.
I like to stay with my few friends deep-connection, and I really enjoy to make these connection deeper.
Sorry for any confusion, I will reply to you if there is something that it's needed to be better explained
Thank you for attention ^^