Lord Lavender
Bluered Trickster
- Joined
- Oct 21, 2016
- Messages
- 5,851
- MBTI Type
- EVLF
- Enneagram
- 739
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sp
1. What drives you in life? What do you look for?
Hmm in life I seek to have a good time and have good times with my loved ones. I also look for learning new ideas and stuff. Otherwise I dont think I am looking for anything in particular. Hmm if I had to say thouhg I seek a life in that I am important and not just a nobody or a loser.
2. What do you hope to accomplish in your life?
In my life I hope to accomplish sucesss and be loved by most people. I also seek to be a good person on the whole and leave a overall postive impact on the world. Otherwise I dont have much tidea of what I want.
3. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you?
I hope to avoid a life of struggle and pain and I would love a life of joy and pleasant times. I have no real deep inner values apart from strivng to be a good person who is well repespted and sucessful and I also seek to have fun in life via adventures and learning as many topics as possible.
4. What are your biggest fears (not including phobias)? Why?
I deeply fear being isolated from others as I value being a valuable person. I also deeply fear stagnation and not amounting to much as this ties in wanting to explore life in general. Locking me in a cage all my life would be my worse nightmare in other words as my mind would not have any stimialtion plus I would be a nobody.
5. How do you want others to see you? How do you see yourself?
I want to be seen as smart, funny, valuable, nice, caring, peaceful, normal. I am not sure how I see myself but overall I think I fit what I want to be overall.
6. What makes you feel your best? What makes you feel your worst?
I feel at my best when I am being a good infulence on people, when im succeding and moving forwards and when I have good times with others and bond with them over that. I feet at my worse when I feel that I am seen in a bad light or when I have a lack of harmony with others.
7. Describe how you experience each of: a) anger; b) shame; c) anxiety.
To me anger is something I hate to feel or be around. Anger makes me withdraw and get very upset like when someone is angry I will leave the room and I will try to not be angry. Inside however my anger is a rightious anger like if I see someone being a bully or when I read headlines of people being dickheads I get a quick surge of anger inside but I dont show this unless i need too for a purpose.
Shame is something I feel when I do somethign wrong or feel that I am worse than someone. I have things I am ashamed off inside and use this shame to utilize a good image.
To me anieixty is something I try to repress by thinking of good things and looking for new ideas so I am not forced to face the aniexty. I have deep worries inside but I hide them by having good times.
8. Describe how you respond to each of: a) stress; b) unexpected change; c) conflict.
Stress makes me very grumpy and more sensitive than normal. I tend to try to tune out when stressed by engaging in pleasant activities and ranting to family and freinds to seek support.
Unexpected change hmmm it depends if its positive or negative. If its positive then I welcome it with open arms but if its negative I will try to fight this change or look for alternative ideas to said change.
Conflict makes me feel very bad inside. I sometimes feel physically sick when there is heavy conflict all around and I withdraw but will fight if I feel I must or to support someone else.
9. Describe your orientation to: a) authority; b) power. How do you respond to these?
I am fairly neutral to authority. As long as they dont harm me im fine with them and I do think its needed in order to have a prosperous and fair society.
Power is something I desire to an extent as I then have value and can have more control over my life. However I tend ot prefer more balanced power as I dont like it when things are unfair.
10. What is your overall outlook on life and humanity?
My overall look on humanity is that inherently we are all seeking to be good and that most people who are bad are that due to circumstances and that we should help them. My overall look on life is that life can be full of joy if you make it so but it can also go very pear shaped if you are not careful. Overall I have a pretty rose eyed view of life and humanity one could say.
Hmm in life I seek to have a good time and have good times with my loved ones. I also look for learning new ideas and stuff. Otherwise I dont think I am looking for anything in particular. Hmm if I had to say thouhg I seek a life in that I am important and not just a nobody or a loser.
2. What do you hope to accomplish in your life?
In my life I hope to accomplish sucesss and be loved by most people. I also seek to be a good person on the whole and leave a overall postive impact on the world. Otherwise I dont have much tidea of what I want.
3. What do you hope to avoid doing or being? What values are important to you?
I hope to avoid a life of struggle and pain and I would love a life of joy and pleasant times. I have no real deep inner values apart from strivng to be a good person who is well repespted and sucessful and I also seek to have fun in life via adventures and learning as many topics as possible.
4. What are your biggest fears (not including phobias)? Why?
I deeply fear being isolated from others as I value being a valuable person. I also deeply fear stagnation and not amounting to much as this ties in wanting to explore life in general. Locking me in a cage all my life would be my worse nightmare in other words as my mind would not have any stimialtion plus I would be a nobody.
5. How do you want others to see you? How do you see yourself?
I want to be seen as smart, funny, valuable, nice, caring, peaceful, normal. I am not sure how I see myself but overall I think I fit what I want to be overall.
6. What makes you feel your best? What makes you feel your worst?
I feel at my best when I am being a good infulence on people, when im succeding and moving forwards and when I have good times with others and bond with them over that. I feet at my worse when I feel that I am seen in a bad light or when I have a lack of harmony with others.
7. Describe how you experience each of: a) anger; b) shame; c) anxiety.
To me anger is something I hate to feel or be around. Anger makes me withdraw and get very upset like when someone is angry I will leave the room and I will try to not be angry. Inside however my anger is a rightious anger like if I see someone being a bully or when I read headlines of people being dickheads I get a quick surge of anger inside but I dont show this unless i need too for a purpose.
Shame is something I feel when I do somethign wrong or feel that I am worse than someone. I have things I am ashamed off inside and use this shame to utilize a good image.
To me anieixty is something I try to repress by thinking of good things and looking for new ideas so I am not forced to face the aniexty. I have deep worries inside but I hide them by having good times.
8. Describe how you respond to each of: a) stress; b) unexpected change; c) conflict.
Stress makes me very grumpy and more sensitive than normal. I tend to try to tune out when stressed by engaging in pleasant activities and ranting to family and freinds to seek support.
Unexpected change hmmm it depends if its positive or negative. If its positive then I welcome it with open arms but if its negative I will try to fight this change or look for alternative ideas to said change.
Conflict makes me feel very bad inside. I sometimes feel physically sick when there is heavy conflict all around and I withdraw but will fight if I feel I must or to support someone else.
9. Describe your orientation to: a) authority; b) power. How do you respond to these?
I am fairly neutral to authority. As long as they dont harm me im fine with them and I do think its needed in order to have a prosperous and fair society.
Power is something I desire to an extent as I then have value and can have more control over my life. However I tend ot prefer more balanced power as I dont like it when things are unfair.
10. What is your overall outlook on life and humanity?
My overall look on humanity is that inherently we are all seeking to be good and that most people who are bad are that due to circumstances and that we should help them. My overall look on life is that life can be full of joy if you make it so but it can also go very pear shaped if you are not careful. Overall I have a pretty rose eyed view of life and humanity one could say.