Mondo
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Is it abnormal for a sp/sx type to have trouble with long-term relationships?
The longest time I've spent in a relationship has been a year.
Mine usually start quickly and end quickly.
It's usually the woman who breaks up with me and not the other way around.
I was wondering if this was "typical" or is it atypical for someone with a sp/sx- especially for someone around my age (I'm 21.)
I'm definitely a sp-first and feel that my sx instinct is stronger than my so instinct. I only become highly sociable in anticipation of connecting deeply with others.
I guess one of the main reasons why I'm asking is that I feel I'm not particularly "attractive" (except to those I'm not attracted to- but that's a different story) to a lot of people- it's moreso that I get very attracted to people and pull them into my lives..
The longest time I've spent in a relationship has been a year.
Mine usually start quickly and end quickly.
It's usually the woman who breaks up with me and not the other way around.
I was wondering if this was "typical" or is it atypical for someone with a sp/sx- especially for someone around my age (I'm 21.)
I'm definitely a sp-first and feel that my sx instinct is stronger than my so instinct. I only become highly sociable in anticipation of connecting deeply with others.
I guess one of the main reasons why I'm asking is that I feel I'm not particularly "attractive" (except to those I'm not attracted to- but that's a different story) to a lot of people- it's moreso that I get very attracted to people and pull them into my lives..