Red Memories
Haunted Echoes
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- Jun 3, 2017
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- MBTI Type
- ESFP
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- sx/so
[MENTION=33903]Crystal Winter Dream[/MENTION]
oh boo, I ask myself both "How do others feel?" and "How do I feel?" and I can't tell which I ask more frequently
I think my consistency between what I say and do is more logical than ethical, like it's about some principle instead of being true to myself, so to speak.
So we're back to Fe/Ti instead of Fi/Te
a part of me wants to be ESTJ but there's no way that I'm dominant Te
Yea it is easy to get wrapped up in what you want to be. It's okay.
You see, what many mistake about Fe vs. Fi is suggesting Fe does not have its own values. Fe can, unhealthy if it is, groupthink, but it does not do that really.
Fe has internal values it creates through externalizing. They get the scope of how those closest to them feel on the issue then create a base structure. Once this base is found, it chooses to associate with those of the same or similar point of view to avoid conflict.