Malkavia
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Fellow NFs, Im a harsh bitch sometimes. Ok well, more like all of the time.
I'm really dry, sarcastic, and blunt. I like myself and my humor but sometimes I can tell people get offended. Now normally I dont care but me and my best had a talk where we each gave one thing we thought the other should work on. He told he definitely thinks I should learn not to be so harsh because it can make people feel like I dont like them.
I really do like almost everyone but I can see how my sarcasm and poking fun at people can sometimes be taken the wrong away.
Do any other ENFPs have this problem? With sometimes being TOO honest? Any way to maybe tone it down a little bit to help make everyone feel accepted?
I'm really dry, sarcastic, and blunt. I like myself and my humor but sometimes I can tell people get offended. Now normally I dont care but me and my best had a talk where we each gave one thing we thought the other should work on. He told he definitely thinks I should learn not to be so harsh because it can make people feel like I dont like them.
I really do like almost everyone but I can see how my sarcasm and poking fun at people can sometimes be taken the wrong away.
Do any other ENFPs have this problem? With sometimes being TOO honest? Any way to maybe tone it down a little bit to help make everyone feel accepted?