... but I have had strong Js suggest I may be because they tend to project their extremely black and white way of thinking onto everyone else. ...I'm not saying all, or most, Js are like this, but keep in mind that flaws you perceive in people different from you might just be the old J trap of leaping to conclusions on painfully little evidence.
Congrats booyalab. I guess this is your roundabout way of insulting me as you deceive me with your complex, compound sentences. How brilliant!
Huh? I'm so confused now. booya made it a point to explain that this was her experience with some Js and it didn't necessarily apply to you. Is there a joke I'm missing, or are you being serious?
She has a good point that most of us have a tendency to see the flaw in the other person before we see it in ourselves. I know I've done that plenty of times.