I am hurt and confused. My ISTP of 2 years has been going through stressful family and work related problems. He is usually a very peaceful, fun guy that just takes it as it comes. I have felt that he has been distancing himself and I've allowed him his space. We were living together and I moved back to my place to give him his space and only hung out on weekends. He out of the blew said" if you don't want to hang out this past weekend its okay with me, I' be busy with work." First how passive aggressive, not like him at all. Second I was blown away and said so, since work has never kept us apart. I responded by saying I was getting the feeling he wasn't feeling the same way as I was. And he said " with all I am going through I think my heart is frozen" WHAT DOES THAT MEAN!!!! I've seen him at work and that it. HELP ! I want to understand.