My post might be a bit all over the place, but here I go:
I'm now in my early twenties and still haven't had a girlfriend. In my teenage years I tried a couple times to get a girlfriend but that failed, and gave up on it by the end of high school. Recently I tried but that failed. It hurt me a bit that's why I'm on here.
I always hear and see "be yourself" and something will happen. That won't work for me. My 'unique' personality is partly to blame, I guess. I feel strongly about global racial equality, house/garage/disco/funk and r&b music, comedy, and video games. Now I know people share the same interests. But I feel what I feel deeply and differently to others. That gives me the feeling of being alone.
I don't go out unless it's family, shopping or class-related. Going to 'lit' clubs and getting 'turnt' won't stimulate me. I hate being a part of that generation. And where I live there's not much here for me. Seriously, there isn't. So before you think about telling me to focus on something, don't. I can't focus on something else because that's what I've always done and it's becoming a pain. I don't know what to do.
So has anybody else felt alone? How did you deal with it?
I'm now in my early twenties and still haven't had a girlfriend. In my teenage years I tried a couple times to get a girlfriend but that failed, and gave up on it by the end of high school. Recently I tried but that failed. It hurt me a bit that's why I'm on here.
I always hear and see "be yourself" and something will happen. That won't work for me. My 'unique' personality is partly to blame, I guess. I feel strongly about global racial equality, house/garage/disco/funk and r&b music, comedy, and video games. Now I know people share the same interests. But I feel what I feel deeply and differently to others. That gives me the feeling of being alone.
I don't go out unless it's family, shopping or class-related. Going to 'lit' clubs and getting 'turnt' won't stimulate me. I hate being a part of that generation. And where I live there's not much here for me. Seriously, there isn't. So before you think about telling me to focus on something, don't. I can't focus on something else because that's what I've always done and it's becoming a pain. I don't know what to do.
So has anybody else felt alone? How did you deal with it?