I am an eSFj and i am an Aries. Found this which seems to ring true for the most part, although i wouldn't ordinarily admit it
Aries female is the one who will do anything and everything herself, without needing any male help.
She has to lead, to be the first one to do anything. At times, her independence does not go well with the male ego.
An Aries woman can survive even the toughest of circumstances alone and has the ability to come back even after the most gruesome tragedies.
Over-sweetness and too much closeness can make her run away, but she doesn't want you to be too detached also.
Once she has committed to you, she will be extremely sentimental and very loyal.
If an Aries girl gets hurt, she will become as cold as the ice in your fridge and this behavior may last an entire lifetime. She is generous to the faults of her loved ones and it is better not to criticize them in front of her.
She is more comfortable with men than women. However, don't be suspicious of her, she would be really hurt.
She is extremely passionate and believes in forever-lasting relationships.
She will never play games with you and is incapable of deceit.
She loves challenges and believes in miracles. Though it sounds a little freaky, but miracles do happen in her case. Just like a typical Aries, she never learns from her mistakes and is likely to fall in the same hole again.
(If at first you don't succeed, try, try again, lol)
Though she tries to show that she is very strong, she is as innocent and as vulnerable as a baby. Be there to comfort her when she runs up to you after being disappointed with the world. If you stand up to her when she comes to you like this, you will never ever lose her. An Aries female will never forgive you if you fail to fight for her.
she will always be there with you, even if she has to go against the whole world. She is not the one to feign illness, but if she is really ill, be there to care for her. She is quite extravagant and giving her the debit cards will mean an empty bank account. She will be a caring mother, who makes no unnecessary fuss and sparks children's imagination. An Aries girl has a bad temper, but it will go away as quickly as it came and leave no grudges behind. She is a complete woman, who gets hurt easily and is totally innocent. Though she is a little impulsive and bossy, she will give you complete security, fight against the world for you and be yours forever!