Moiety
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The truth is, and I know NF's hate such cynicism, but words and 'feelings' do not mean anything. They are air. They are variable. They change. Building anything on feeling or words, is a risk.
The only thing you can safely rely on is judging people by their actions. This will reveal where their true feelings and commitments lie. Look at the decisions people make, watch what they do, observe how they treat people they do not need to impress.
Edit: Also, make people earn your trust.
Much agreed. I don't know what the F says about me but that's how I like to see things myself. I'm never nice just for the sake of karma (well, maybe with the old lady trying to cross the street and whatnot). As I meet people I tend to wear my "cool". It helps to filter people with ill intentions pretty fast.
(By "cool" I mean knowing your good, something others might confuse with arrogance )
EDIT:But just to be clear, jokes aside, I don't like messing with people heads at all.