I'm an ENFP. I'm a sociable loner. One friend, but that's all. And I feel like I'm whithering....So, I ask, what type to you believe is best to live this loner lifestyle, because I don't think ENFPs are that type.
ISTP.
Let me give you some advice, coming from someone who has been/is there too : think about your goals in life and work towards them NOW.
My current goal is to live somewhere cool, have friends, go on adventures and start working towards being able to be creative and make my ideas tangible.
So I'm doing it now. I don't even care much where I'm going. I'm gonna move to another city in my country till the end of October because I'm suffocated by my environment here. Because there is no point denying some of your needs. I will say, that loneliness isn't always bad for an ENFP. It builds character and depth and makes you think about what you are doing (and if you are a 7...it would make sense since you're supposed to integrate to 5 to be healthier). But yeah, go after what you want. What would like to have right now that you don't? Go after that.
I'm an ENFP. I'm a sociable loner. One friend, but that's all. And I feel like I'm whithering....So, I ask, what type to you believe is best to live this loner lifestyle, because I don't think ENFPs are that type.
^ITs. i think the ITPs are the most natural loners of all. They're the type that's more likely to sit at least five seats away from anyone else for no apparent reason.
^ For me it means, I don't feel the desire to jump from aquiantance to friend because I don't feel a 'real' connection. If you're one of those real friends and we're 'hanging out', I'm very sociable. I'm not social enough to keep friendships going. For example, if you write me on Facebook, call me, email me, txt me, I'll usually feel touched, but I won't reply 95% of the time. Sometimes I'll want to reply, but because I'm busy or not sure how to respond, I won't. That doesn't mean I don't care. I'm private and I'm not a small talker. I do this with family too, but it's more like 50% of time. There are rare friends and rare exceptions to this though. All friendships seem to fade away over time.so... sociable loner, what's that? you're friendly with people but you don't make the jump from aquiantance to friend?
I'm an ENFP. I'm a sociable loner. One friend, but that's all. And I feel like I'm whithering....So, I ask, what type to you believe is best to live this loner lifestyle, because I don't think ENFPs are that type.
I'm an ENFP. I'm a sociable loner. One friend, but that's all. And I feel like I'm whithering....So, I ask, what type to you believe is best to live this loner lifestyle, because I don't think ENFPs are that type.
That seems to be a similar trait between ENxPs, I noticed, like the introverted extrovert thing.
I think it could be possible that we just hold people to higher standards when it comes to friendships, and we become nervous assuming they're holding the same standards when meeting someone.
I am without a doubt a loner but I really don't FEEL lonely, I have only one friend and I haven't seen him in like 7, 8 months. I think it might be true about ITPs being natural loners. I have an ENFP sister who says that she likes to spend alot of time to herself but I wouldn't call her a loner.
God, were all a bunch of losers!!