Logitechu
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Hi!
In this post I would like us to discuss the compatibility for each single letter.
In terms of both relationship and friendship.
Which ones are important, which ones are not? if so, why?
Do you have a favorite combination?
Any personal experience or stories?
Here is my take on it.
Introversion x Extroversion:
The traditional recommendation is that introversion balance out extroversion and vice versa.
However, I believe this letter compatibility is not the most important. I can definitely see two introverts be happy together. The same applies to extroverts.
I can understand the recommendation because the extrovert will take the spotlight in unavoidable social situations, it can be very much appreciated by the introvert.
As well as transferring energy to the introvert, in return the introvert makes the extrovert more relaxed.
Sensing x Intuitive:
This one has the highest conflict-potential the way I see it.
People with strong sensing will not easily understand and listen to complex dreams and ideas. They rely on facts and the present.
It can create unbalance and a feeling of not being seen.
However, I do believe they can have much to teach each other about life and can fulfill very different roles. That's good as long as the conflict-level stays low.
Thinking x Feeling:
A bit optional.
If you want a relationship colored with feelings, someone with the feeling trait would definitely contribute to that.
If a more intellectual pursuit is preferable, the thinking trait is perhaps more welcome.
For the sake of diversity, thinking x feeling might be more positive in the long run.
Judging x Perceiving:
To be honest. This is probably my favorite combination.
Not to say perceiving people are messy, but having someone less interested in improvising can bring tremendous balance and order into the family life.
The perceiving will give the family life spontaneity back which can be very important. It brings excitement of not knowing, might bring out the child in the judging-type.
In this post I would like us to discuss the compatibility for each single letter.
In terms of both relationship and friendship.
Which ones are important, which ones are not? if so, why?
Do you have a favorite combination?
Any personal experience or stories?
Here is my take on it.
Introversion x Extroversion:
The traditional recommendation is that introversion balance out extroversion and vice versa.
However, I believe this letter compatibility is not the most important. I can definitely see two introverts be happy together. The same applies to extroverts.
I can understand the recommendation because the extrovert will take the spotlight in unavoidable social situations, it can be very much appreciated by the introvert.
As well as transferring energy to the introvert, in return the introvert makes the extrovert more relaxed.
Sensing x Intuitive:
This one has the highest conflict-potential the way I see it.
People with strong sensing will not easily understand and listen to complex dreams and ideas. They rely on facts and the present.
It can create unbalance and a feeling of not being seen.
However, I do believe they can have much to teach each other about life and can fulfill very different roles. That's good as long as the conflict-level stays low.
Thinking x Feeling:
A bit optional.
If you want a relationship colored with feelings, someone with the feeling trait would definitely contribute to that.
If a more intellectual pursuit is preferable, the thinking trait is perhaps more welcome.
For the sake of diversity, thinking x feeling might be more positive in the long run.
Judging x Perceiving:
To be honest. This is probably my favorite combination.
Not to say perceiving people are messy, but having someone less interested in improvising can bring tremendous balance and order into the family life.
The perceiving will give the family life spontaneity back which can be very important. It brings excitement of not knowing, might bring out the child in the judging-type.