Pseudo
New member
- Joined
- Jul 2, 2012
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- MBTI Type
- INTP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
In my experience ESFPs like to boss me around and try to change me, since I am not conforming to the social norms and fulfilling the societal obligations that they find so important, ESFP for me being the most judgemental of all the types, except possibly ESFJ.
I've never experienced that with an ESFP. They seem pretty into novelty and new people. What they really don't like is a buzz kill. I could see how someone who only wanted to have in depth discussions on abstract theories all the time would annoy an ESFP, but them seem much more likely to just get uncontrollably angry than try to change anyone. ESFJs on the other hand can be very single minded. My best friend in ESFJ but when she doesn't like something you can't get her to say a single good word about it. Basically the "well I guess it's fine if you like it but I just think it's completely terrible and disgusting".